[N3aR]

Originally Posted by Cadet

How in god's name did she initiate it? She didn't sit that way so she could be assaulted.

Yes, this is considered sexual harassment, or some form of it. Whether or not you sat some way, or laid some way, it does not give them the right to touch you or do what they did. You told them to stop, and they didn't. That makes it wrong. You need to report it right away. There is no excuse for their actions, whether you're a friend or not, for anyone to do that to you.

I get what you're saying Catch, but it's like this: If I get naked in front of my boyfriend, I'm initiating it right? Okay, but if he gets on me and for some reason I change my mind and say "No," he is not allowed to do anything to me because I don't want it. She was scared and told the boys to get off of her. It doesn't matter what she did that makes you feel like she initiated it. And I don't even think she was enabling them. No where did she do anything that I feel warranted a "Hop on and squeeze my ass."

What they did was wrong, and you shouldn't have had to go through that. Talk to a teacher or your friends. But really, I'd recommend a teacher, because they should not think that behavior is okay in a school setting, or any setting for that matter.

Preachin to the congregation!

[tabicat]

Originally Posted by Slightly

You have three posts. One of them is you explaining that you're into BDSM and being submissive (in a thread about fetishes), another is also related to fetishes and your very first post is this one.

Not only does your story sound fake, but you most likely wrote it because you enjoy erotic stories in which the girl is "slapped", "pinned", "forced", "on uncomfortable surfaces" and "exhibited" (you mention being turned on by all of these in your BDSM post). Mind you, all of these elements seem to occur in your story.

There are people on this forum who do actually get sexually harassed or raped and need help to end it. You're not one of them because this story is so obviously a bullshit fantasy, and this forum is not the place to pass it off as reality. Google some erotic literature websites and go nuts.

I can get where it would seem like I was just making it up but what happems in my real life is a different place from my fantasies. I would rather my fantasies be played out eith someone that I actually like and trust. In this instance I did not enjoy what happened to me because they were not my desired partners and I only see them as friends. After evaluating the situayion i decided that it was most likely just horseplay because I've gotten to know them and they do like to play around like that but the only reason I bring this up is because I have been sexually abused in the past which makes me more than a little unnerved when situations like this happen to me because I remember my horrible experience. That being said that experience might have been what triggered my fetish (idk I'm not a psychologist) but all I know is what I like and ehat i sont like and this was definately something I don't like.

[Slightly]

Originally Posted by tabicat

I can get where it would seem like I was just making it up but what happems in my real life is a different place from my fantasies. I would rather my fantasies be played out eith someone that I actually like and trust. In this instance I did not enjoy what happened to me because they were not my desired partners and I only see them as friends. After evaluating the situayion i decided that it was most likely just horseplay because I've gotten to know them and they do like to play around like that but the only reason I bring this up is because I have been sexually abused in the past which makes me more than a little unnerved when situations like this happen to me because I remember my horrible experience. That being said that experience might have been what triggered my fetish (idk I'm not a psychologist) but all I know is what I like and ehat i sont like and this was definately something I don't like.

Your first post in this thread is not at all indicative of you being upset. Pushing "Caps Lock" to type the title and then ending it with a frowny face doesn't communicate what someone might truly feel in such a situation. I could point out several things in your post that suggest you wrote this thread to fulfill a fetish fantasy of yours.

Pretty much everyone in this thread has told you what you described is sexual harassment, yet you decide otherwise even though you quite clearly were "scared" to return on Monday to the bus. I'm not buying it.

I won't contest your previous sexual abuse and I wouldn't care to. If you're having troubles with moving on from that, you need to see a psychologist and sort that out. Just on a side note, people who suffer from sexual abuse are more likely to shy away from sexually expressing themselves, especially with regards to the sex act that was performed on them by the abuser.

But, I'm sorry to say that this thread is quite clearly fabricated. Seriously, those boys managed to fulfill 90% of the erotic-acts on your fetish list, and to top it off the post is laden with sexual language. So yeah, not buying it. Sorry. On a forum where people actually come to get support with regards to their sexual abuse, this isn't impressive.