[melikemyself]

my best friend is 19 about 4 years older than me and we were in his car - he went in a shop and i waited he said hed be a while ... its kinda stupid but i was horny so i may have put a finger or to up (sorry for the awkward reading) anyway he came back quicker than expected and saw me?! we laugh about it and everyhting was fine he said he diddnt mind but i still feel awkward ... i no it was stupid so dont lecture me to much but how can i break the 'tension'??

[Dearborn]

It's not a problem. If you have good relationship though.

And why the fuck did you do that? :/
I mean ... it's not so bad, but still ...

[Antheia]

Umm don't really think there is a way not to make that awkward tension
Unless y'all were together

[David-]

Not entirely sure how you break the tension with that one.... may be something you just move on from and time breaks the tension.

[melikemyself]

Originally Posted by Black

It's not a problem. If you have good relationship though.

And why the fuck did you do that? :/
I mean ... it's not so bad, but still ...

it was a moment when it had to be done and there was nobody there ... then he opened the door. he doesnt seem awkward and he kept saying dont worry but i feel bad - should i talk to him about it ? it wont be awkward to talk about it cuz were good mates ? i think it makes it worse because hes a guy ??

[alternativeman121]

lolol, sorry, i lold. but just give it a while and it'll be fine

[Mazamaras]

Just casually fingering ones self in the car.

[Cougar88]

Well when i try to break tension it usually involves something funny, and surprising .... and quite often it involves me dropping my pants .... but you have already done those things when he saw you hahaha. So idk what suggestion I have to break the tension

But honestly what others have said, time will make it pass. The only thing would be if like you two are together and a third person brings up masturbation or getting walked in on or the like, the two of you will undoubtably both think about that one day he caught you fingering in the car. That may be awkward. But again time will pass.

Kinda off subject, why is your best friend a dude who is 4 years older??? Isnt that sorta weird? I know if when I was 15 and my bestie was achick 19 years old I would wanna hook up with her. I would also be sorta intimidated by her with so much more life experience. Do you feel that way? And if I was him at 19 and you were 15 I would feel like hshe was my lil sister i guess. I guess what I am asking is do u have a crush on him?

[melikemyself]

Originally Posted by Cougar88

Well when i try to break tension it usually involves something funny, and surprising .... and quite often it involves me dropping my pants .... but you have already done those things when he saw you hahaha. So idk what suggestion I have to break the tension

But honestly what others have said, time will make it pass. The only thing would be if like you two are together and a third person brings up masturbation or getting walked in on or the like, the two of you will undoubtably both think about that one day he caught you fingering in the car. That may be awkward. But again time will pass.

Kinda off subject, why is your best friend a dude who is 4 years older??? Isnt that sorta weird? I know if when I was 15 and my bestie was achick 19 years old I would wanna hook up with her. I would also be sorta intimidated by her with so much more life experience. Do you feel that way? And if I was him at 19 and you were 15 I would feel like hshe was my lil sister i guess. I guess what I am asking is do u have a crush on him?

NO DEFINATLY NOT *shudder* ive known him for like ever weve always got on but no i would never even think about getting with him... but were both comfortable talking about anything and he tells me everything. it does sound a bit weird but we really are i think for me thats why i am weirded out because hes my best mate - not a brother or anything like that. he did say he liked me because of my personality but hes got a girlfriend who his age and we get on

[melikemyself]

and im not intimidated my him we similar most ways