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Old 12-02-12, 06:40 PM   #1
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Hey, so I was sitting next to my friend (whos a guy) and I got an erection? But I also got an erection over a lady that same day! Does this make me bi or gay?
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Old 12-02-12, 06:43 PM   #2
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I've never gotten an erection, but I heard from various sources that they can be random. Were you looking at your guy friend or thinking about him when you got the erection?
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Good point, if it was just random it is called a broner.








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Old 12-02-12, 06:46 PM   #4
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When you got an erection when sitting next to a guy, I assume you felt attracted by him/were looking at him? If so, if that happens with girls too, yes you are a bisexual. It may vary in future years though, puberty is an age of discovery afterall. You might turn out 'gayer' or more heterosexual in a few more years, who knows.










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He wAs sitting next to me!

One time his hand was down his pants ad looked as if he was having a wank! I went hard!

Another time he was sitting next to me just feeling his pebis and again I went hard!

Another time I was getting changed after gym class and I saw his penis, I looked but only had a semi
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Old 12-02-12, 06:47 PM   #6
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If you popped a random boner, you aren't necessarily gay. Its natural during puberty








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Old 12-02-12, 06:52 PM   #7
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I do think he's hot! He's bi! He keeps feeling me up as well!

Could this mean anything?
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Old 12-02-12, 06:57 PM   #8
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Random boners are really common, especially if you're going through puberty. Your hormones are really imbalanced, and everything is a bit nutty inside your body.

Erections aren't a very good indication of one's sexuality.

If you seem to have sexual attraction toward him and when he touches himself, then perhaps you are gay or bisexual.
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Old 12-02-12, 07:06 PM   #9
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If this happens everyweek would tht suggest anything?
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Old 12-02-12, 10:53 PM   #10
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Default Re: Am I bisexual or gay?

In all reality, I don't think we can tell you if you are gay or you are bi. Only you can tell what you're sexual preference is. If you are bi or gay, it's important to know that that isn't a bad thing at all. You should explore this option more and see if you develop feelings for this guy and see if it seems right. While it may be a random erection, it might not be as well. I would encourage you to explore your sexuality a little more and see what you do like and what you don't like for yourself. Then you can make a more informed decision on the matter and embrace who you are. Good luck.
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