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I have so many questions.
November 2011 i lost my virginity, i was only 14. it was great, dont get me wrong but nothing feels all that different should it feel different?
Another thing is i waited 11months with my boyfriend too do it but was that too long / not long enough?
I haven't told very many people and the people who do know all guessed! my parents dont know either should i tell my mum i would certainly never tell my dad.
We had sex last november. Our first time he lasted a long time leaving us free to do a few positions, one we tried was me being on top, it hurt, it hurt so much that i was probably only there for a minute tops. But even now if we have sex it still hurts and its not that pleasurable as it is as he's like well you know...
If you feel comfortable with it , then you should be worried about what others might think or if you should tell , You just have to do what you feel like .
If it hurts you , just let the man know...
Anybody can become angry , Thats really easy ...
but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way that is not within everybody's power and is not easy.
You could try using some sort of lubrication and see if that helps at all. That helps some people with this problem. It also depends on how much you've had sex. If you've had it a good amount of times and the pain hasn't lessened at all, I would suggest that you do go to the doctor and see what's wrong. There are a number of things that can be the cause but some of them won't go away without treatment.
Sex should not be painful, if it is, there's something you are doing wrong.
Perhaps using more lubrication, (doesn't necessarily have to be actual store-bought lubrication. *cough*)
He could also be too big for your right now, you may want to try doing some foreplay before hand to loosen you up before actual intercourse.
You've got a lot of questions.
I mean, if you don't feel remorse or regret while having sex with him, I don't see a reason to need to tell anyone what you're doing so long as you are being safe about it.
*Oh, and btw, I DO throw rage fits.
If I get overly aggressive at you, just ignore me.
Overall, if you need help, please feel free to ask me for it.
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