[Number1owl]

I'm not exactly the most experienced with girls. In fact, until tonight, I'd never got beyond kissing. However, tonight, at a party, my best mate's ex-girlfriend borrowed my phone for most of the night texting my best friend, appearing to be from me, saying they should get back together (he knew all along that it wasn't me, so it's cool). When she had no luck, she sat on my knees and directed my hand towards her breasts. Then, in another room, she offered me a blowjob, and whispered a number of things in my ear. I know she was only trying to get back at my friend, but he spilt up with her, and she's sexy as hell. Ordinarily, I wouldn't have hesitated... The problem was, the party was being held by my neighbours' daughter, and my parents and 2 sisters came across to the house where the party was being held along with the people whose house it was. I WAS BEING OFFERED A BLOWJOB IN THE ROOM NEXT TO MY PARENTS AND SISTERS!!!

Now, it's 2 hours after the party finished an I can't stop shaking. Is it because I'm annoyed about what I missed out on? Or because I didn't really want it at all? And how the hell am I supposed to react to the girl around school?!

[Singularis]

To be honest, I think it's better that you refused. You know she wanted to get back at your best friend, so why even take part in it? Would you trade your best friend's trust for a few moments of pleasure?

Just act normally, and be glad you refused.

[DeepDistress]

Uh, you're a good man? You shouldn't feel bad about that. Honestly, she sounds like a psycho bitch. and imo guys who're easy and give in to crap just because it's hot/feels good/free whatever is like a huge turn off.

[Ghuraba]

Whether you intended it or not, you sir, are a hero.

You may have passed up an opportunity to get some, but how long until you're offered again? I can safely say, not very long.

Forget about your thoughts for a moment. Once your best mate finds out since word does spread, he will trust you and hold you in such an honourable position. You've probably gained every drop of respect you can off him.

What message does this send to the ladies? That you're an classy guy with standards. I'm sure they'll cherish that.

That's if of course they don't find out the specifics, but that'll be our little secret. So go out there with your chin held high.

[Nobartholem]

You're a great man, and a great friend. Kudos to you for doing the right thing. Most men, myself included, would think with their dick on this one. Kudos to you for not doing that.

[David-]

You thought with your head. That's impressive dude, given the situation.

Act normal... something a friend always quotes to me, "its only awkward if you make it awkward."

[PsychedelicMess]

you are a good man.
& you've got good karma coming you wayyyyy!

you are a great friend sir, a friend that more people should have on this earth. i feel like not a lot of people would've been able to stand their ground when put in a situation like that

[Neverland]

I agree that you did the right thing. She doesn't seem like someone you'd want to give it to IMO.

[SumSpecial]

To be honest, as someone who doesn't know you, I'd pat you on the back and say "well done", but if I were a good friend, I'd be disappointed (and jealous too). Especially if you've never kissed any one. I know that if I were in your situation, I would hate myself too, but soon you'll look back and say "I was a well mannered kid"

[ThreeDog]

I would give you a medal but i ran out.