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So at school, I'm pretty much the whore. I lost my virginity at 15 (19 now), and since then have had multiple partners. I haven't had a steady boyfriend because no one has really worked out. I've tried to have a relationship, which apparently is a bad thing since none of them work out and I try to find someone new. So in the eyes of everyone else I just move from one person to the next. Yeah fine, think what you want of me, I don't really care.
But what bothers me is the negative connotation associated with promiscuity and having sex. Yeah I like sex, and yeah I want to have sex. If I want to attract a guy's attention I will. Being horny seems to be a crime sometimes. And with guys, it always seems to be the more girls they sleep with, the better, while it's the opposite for us. I mean everyone likes sex, it's a natural process, that, when done with protection is actually good for you. Why do whores get criticized for sleeping with everyone? Faithfulness I guess comes into play, but a lot of people, like myself, have problems maintaining a steady relationship, and have to find new partners.
It's like pornstars. They have sex all the time, and thus people view the profession with so much negativity. I would love to have that job. Making money to have sex sounds like a pretty good deal. It's a job that I would enjoy going to everyday.
I realize that promiscuity when you're young is a problem, kids don't know better, blah blah blah. But even when you're old enough to make these decisions, people are still looking at you, shaking their heads just because you want sex. Think what you want of me, I could care less, but I'm just so confused as to why the process of creating life and pleasure ultimately gets ridiculed, even among semi-responsible adults.
I agree with you 100%. Well, except for the porn thing, but whatever floats your boat. I mean, I personally wouldn't want to just have sex with someone just because I can, I'm all emotional about it. But its so shitty that sex is still such a taboo in modern day society. Sexuality shouldn't be something to be ashamed of. Sex is good. I like it a lot. I've never understood the double standard either. Hell, when I was going to lose my virginity, I was more worried about my friends judging me harshly than the act itself.
Anyway, there's nothing wrong with liking sex. Like you said, its completely natural and, if you're smart about it, its very healthy. I wouldn't let a bunch of prudes' opinions bother you.
Otherwise, I kindda agree with you. I have difficulty staying with one person and I have a really really high sex drive, I would barely sleep with anyone that I find cute physically. But at the same time, it's find that changing partner often is not good for my self esteen. And sex is so much better when you actually love the person with who you are doing it. Though I still don't understand why sex is a taboo in our society.
I don't have a problem with sexual promiscuity or a hedonistic lifestyle assuming it doesn't hurt anybody. That's all human and natural.
But romantic promiscuity may hurt you in the long run. Do you just get bored in the relationships? or do you quit them at the slightest sign that it's not perfect? Do you put in an honest effort to make the relationships work if it's not easy?(not saying you do, asking.) It may become increasingly difficult to find a willing partner(who actually wants to have a serious relationship) if you build a reputation for switching guys quickly.
I personally wouldn't lose respect for someone if I found out that they were promiscuous and I feel that people that do make no effort to understand human nature.
Otherwise, I kindda agree with you. I have difficulty staying with one person and I have a really really high sex drive, I would barely sleep with anyone that I find cute physically. But at the same time, it's find that changing partner often is not good for my self esteen. And sex is so much better when you actually love the person with who you are doing it. Though I still don't understand why sex is a taboo in our society.
No offense, but everything in that article relating to her car accident really has nothing to do with porn. The accident could have happened to anybody, porn star or not, and anyone can get involved with a drug addict boyfriend. She has no money and is on SSI because of her car accident, not because she was beaten within an inch of her life in a porno movie set.
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Yeah actually, sorry about the second link, it wasn't the one I wanted to post ( I fucked up, it was one about Alex Devine and not Alexa Milano, I messed up with the names). But the first one is more interesting. But now I can't edit anymore :/
totally agree with you.. except for the porn star stuff.
i dont think it's right for anyone to just fuck around with someone.. but i dont think that people should be judged for having sex when theyre emotionally attracted to someone... I dont think whether someone is a virgin or not should matter on other's perspectives of them
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