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Old 13-07-12, 11:46 PM   #1
 
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I'm a virgin. And I'm just wondering how many other people are too? I mean I'm 16 and I could have had sex I've just pushed a few girls away cause that was all that they wanted. But also do you think me and people like me should stay virgins till marriage or enjoy it while we're young?
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another thing, sex is amazing. It's not gonna suck if you wait a few more years so it's not needed to "enjoy it when you're young".


My answer, at a responsible age. and that's not under 16 when you're still in school.
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Kate, it's not a matter of school age, though. Rather maturity, you know?

Being virgin at 16 is totally normal, I'm 17, and still one. And after all, it depends on you whether you choose waiting or not.










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No, it is school. You can't get a job that pays enough to support a child while still in school, not to mention your grades would probably suck more. Maturity is not a right to do whatever you're mature enough for, you have to make sure you're ready on ALL aspects. Yes, there's abortion but you should be ready for the other option incase you change your mind. Even abortion would be really hard on someone that age.
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i disagree, it's not school age, if you are mature enough you will be using a condom = no child to support and no worrying about grades. you should be at least 16 though.




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No, it is school. You can't get a job that pays enough to support a child while still in school, not to mention your grades would probably suck more. Maturity is not a right to do whatever you're mature enough for, you have to make sure you're ready on ALL aspects. Yes, there's abortion but you should be ready for the other option incase you change your mind. Even abortion would be really hard on someone that age.
just cause you have sex doesn't necessarly mean you'll get pregnant. be safe,, use protection and you'll be fine

16 is normal to be a virgin.. alot of my friends are 16 and never had their first kiss.. but i would do it when you think you're ready and found the right person
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It's normal, infact I find it sweet when a guy around your age is still a virgin, it kind of proves that they're not just after sex, which is a good thing ^_^

On the contrary, I do agree with Kate, I mean just because you're 'mature' doesn't mean you're ready to handle a baby. Although there is contraception etc. they're not 100% trustworthy.
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it's not abt the age, you can do when u feel ready, keep always basic safty, condom always... anyway u don't have to push but just make your girl understand your situation
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I'm a virgin. And I'm just wondering how many other people are too? I mean I'm 16 and I could have had sex I've just pushed a few girls away cause that was all that they wanted. But also do you think me and people like me should stay virgins till marriage or enjoy it while we're young?
Take the time to properly educate yourself on how to use condoms and how the birth control pill works, and how to handle the situation if a mistake does occur. Then if you really want to, go for it. There's absolutely no harm in wanting to experience sexual pleasure.

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No, it is school. You can't get a job that pays enough to support a child while still in school, not to mention your grades would probably suck more. Maturity is not a right to do whatever you're mature enough for, you have to make sure you're ready on ALL aspects. Yes, there's abortion but you should be ready for the other option incase you change your mind. Even abortion would be really hard on someone that age.
Uh, condoms and the pill? Having a safe and responsible sex life requires only a small effort and common sense. Quit spreading needless doom and gloom just because you personally disagree with this particular lifestyle choice.
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