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Old 13-08-12, 08:01 AM   #11
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I lost my virginity when i was 14 and i'm still standing.

Make sure you are both mentally mature enough. Even if you use protection, shit still happens. You have to be prepared enough to know and be able to deal with adult actions. They have adult consequences.


Make sure you're ready, and don't force it just because you're eager.










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Old 13-08-12, 08:04 AM   #12
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It comes down to personal choice. However, I strongly suggest against losing it willy nilly. Lose it to someone you love, or someone you won't regret it with. I think it's important that you use your head. I know how it is to be a horny teenager, but there's no shame in just masturbating. I know it doesn't come close to sex, but it still is a better replacement.








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I think you have to consider the short term and long term outcomes.

Like several people have already mentioned you must figure out what kind of contraception you are going to use.
And you must also think about and talk with the girl about the game plan if she does somehow become pregnant, like does she believe in abortion?
Or are you prepared to raise child or give it up for adoption?

And then another important thing you must consider or realize is, that most likely you and this person are going to not always be together. But your probably always going to have strong feelings for them. Is that okay with you?

& i would advise you to really ask yourself, is this the person i want to look back on for the rest of my life as the person i lost my virginity to?
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If you want to have sex have sex. Just make sue you know the consequences if anything goes wrong.
With all due respect i think its a little bit more complicated than this ^^^. I think we all know the consequences of having sex if things go "wrong" ... it's a baby or std/sti or both or an abortion. We know that at around 10. But it's not till much later that we learn that we are immortal and shit can actually happen to us and not just the people we read about. So I would say to the op: if you want to have sex have sex. Just make sure you can DEAL with the consequences if anything goes wrong both emotionally and financially. Maybe it's just semantics, but it's a big difference between understanding biology and dealing with real live shit irl.
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Old 13-08-12, 10:36 AM   #15
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I personally think that sex is best until you're with someone you love and who you won't regret losing it to. It doesn't have to be the person you'll be with forever, even though that's even better for me, but you just have to think if you look back, will you be okay with who you gave it to?
Secondly, assuming you have a partner, are you both comfortable with talking about sex and what decisions you'd make if things went wrong? If you got pregnant, could you deal with the choices you'd have to make? If the answers to any of those questions is no, I'd suggest waiting or being really, really, really safe.
There are so many factors to consider when wondering if you're ready to have sex.

Do not have sex because you feel pressured by peers or a boy to do so. This doesn't necessarily mean they're telling you to do it but if they're making you feel like you're missing out on something.









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It's up to you .
Allot of peep's have already answered the thing's i would have said .
Me myself i'm 16 and i couldn't be arsed to go out and have sex . Meh happy and content with "Making out, French kissing,Meeting" With ever
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i think most people from above covered it. if you want to do it.. then do it.. but make sure it's with someone that you wont regret. remember that losing your virginity is something that is important to you and it stays with you for life. You always remember that person and you want it to be someone that you would want to remember for the rest of your life right? Also knowing all the precautions, possible results and risks are very important








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Okay theres underage, young and wooooooahhh no. kill yourself now young... itd put you as underage but it all depends on how you feel, but never push the other person into doing it cause thats not fair if theyre not ready then you should wait.




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Don't bother having sex when you can't even have a proper orgasm yet. true story.








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Imagine being a nervous teen male in high school, premature ejaculate on your first time, she tells everyone at school and your high school dignity is ruined forever. Hilarious! Oh good stuff
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