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Old 20-02-13, 11:37 PM   #1
 
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Smallsmileys202 i am sexually confused????

anyways how it started
i dated my first girlfriend 4 years ago... up until that point i was raised in a strict christian household and i thought i was straight so when i came under the care of childrens aid i was able to explore more. anyways i got to experiment
i dated a few girls over the years and only got real serious while living with another girl in one of my group homes.. we were inlove.. we got sexual a bit.... and i thought u enjoyed it...

anyways i still think about girls from time to time..
but im not sure im as attracted as i was
why is this?
did my sexuality just disapear? or am i still bi?
i had a crush on a transgendered friend so for a while i labeled myself as pan-sexual but now im not sure what to call myself..

could i see myself marrying a girl=NO
being with a girl forever=NO

all that changed in a heartbeat
if i had asked myself those questions a year ago i would have said yes
what is this?
what can i call myself...

i was a lesbian at one point...i was literally disgusted by men because all they did was use me.. and i didnt like that..

point is.... should i just tell people im straight when they ask me my sexuality.. or go into detail and say i have a past with girls....

anyways im in a happy relationship
my boyfriend is also bi-sexual although he says he wouldnt be able to hold down a realtionship with a guy so when i told him i was possibly trans it kind of hurt but i understood when he said he wouldnt be able to be with me as a guy...

so im like really confused???




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Old 20-02-13, 11:40 PM   #2
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I think you're straight. Sex can just sometimes make you attracted to other things, it's really normal.








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Old 20-02-13, 11:42 PM   #3
 
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k thanks
i thought so too.. but then again i could never actually feel physically attracted to a woman.. i mean i like girls i think... or so i thought.. i could never wrap my head around it.
i assumed since i got turned on by kissing girls and what not that i was bisexual
but i also get turned on by men




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Things change, people change, feelings change. It's bound to happen and you shouldn't worry about it. If you can't imagine marrying a girl then you're probably more straight and shouldn't have lesbian relationships if you don't intend on making them work. You have a boyfriend so you don't need to think about girls anyway.
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Whether you are a straight, bi, lesbian or whatever else there is, confused even, just know that there is no right and wrong. Everything is right, everything is normal, everything is okay. Thus, you don't have to worry about it! Whatever happens happens.

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Old 21-02-13, 08:05 AM   #6
 
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Doesn't your signature say you're a committed PAN-sexual?

Please, for the sake of someone who might fall in love with you and you rejecting them, remove that from your signature before someone gets hurt. Badly.




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Well it just confirms straight even more if you can only imagine being with a girl when you're in the mood. And then after it's all like ewww. lol. It's normal to be turned on by things that you generally aren't seriously attracted to.








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Hey, I won't lie, you are acting pretty ignorant.


Sexual orientation is not binary, and therefore isn't a "either this or this" situation. It's possible to have different levels of bisexuality based on tendencies to be attracted to a certain gender more than others. In short, one girl might turn you on when another might not.




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I like watching gay porn, i get wet when i see a hot girl, i want to date a girl with a penis. if you're a tranny, you're the girl for me does that make me lesbian?
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When my signature says committed- pansexual
I mean I am in a commits relationship and I did consider myself pansexual
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