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Old 08-03-13, 02:44 PM   #1
 
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How old were you when you first had sex? Where were you? Was it with another virgin? Was it nice? For girls, did it hurt/bleed? Were you scared? Where did you do it, on a bed, standing up, or something different?

Sorry for all the questions. I know I'm fairly young to be considering having sex with my guy, but I think I'm ready. My boyfriend said he'd wait until I'm 100% sure I want to lose my virginity. He lives an hour and a half away so we only get to see each other over the weekends. We're trying to decide whether we want to do it over Spring break, or just wait until the summer. I'm leaning towards the summer, because hopefully I'll be on the pill by then. Last weekend while we were making out in his car, I got to see his lower region. Although it looks gorgeous like the rest of him, I'm a little worried about how much it will hurt during my first time. He's a good 7'', and he's fairly thick. Is there any way to make it not hurt? Thanks.
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How old were you when you first had sex? Where were you? Was it with another virgin? Was it nice? For girls, did it hurt/bleed? Were you scared? Where did you do it, on a bed, standing up, or something different?

Sorry for all the questions. I know I'm fairly young to be considering having sex with my guy, but I think I'm ready. My boyfriend said he'd wait until I'm 100% sure I want to lose my virginity. He lives an hour and a half away so we only get to see each other over the weekends. We're trying to decide whether we want to do it over Spring break, or just wait until the summer. I'm leaning towards the summer, because hopefully I'll be on the pill by then. Last weekend while we were making out in his car, I got to see his lower region. Although it looks gorgeous like the rest of him, I'm a little worried about how much it will hurt during my first time. He's a good 7'', and he's fairly thick. Is there any way to make it not hurt? Thanks.
haha, it's not going to hurt as bad as you think. Then again everyone has difference pain tolerance. For me he was about 9 ins a few cm from being 9, it had some meat on there as well lol. I was actually expecting to hurt way worse than it did, but believe it or it really didn't hurt that bad.
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Old 09-03-13, 04:46 AM   #3
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How old were you when you first had sex? 15, but we had been together for 8 months and were together for another 9 months or so before he cheated on me.
Where were you? At his house in his empty converted loft.
Was it with another virgin? Yes.
Was it nice? It was apart from the carpet burn.
For girls, did it hurt/bleed? No. We had done stuff before and I remember when I was being fingered, it hurt a bit but I think that was enough to break the hymen.
Were you scared? A bit.
Where did you do it, on a bed, standing up, or something different? On the floor.

Gosh, women have to go through all the pain and discomfort. Everything is fine for the guy but we have to go through the breaking of the hymen as well as period, childbirth, period pains, mood swings, sexism etc.
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Old 09-03-13, 05:45 AM   #4
 
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How old were you when you first had sex?: 18
Where were you?: At his house, when everyone else was out.
Was it with another virgin?: Yes
Was it nice?: Very
For girls, did it hurt/bleed?: It was a little uncomfortable at first, for a second at the very beginning. But my hymen had already been torn earlier when he was fingering me. There was quite a bit of blood then, but it didn't actually hurt very much.
Were you scared?: Not at the time, but afterwards I had a "Oh my god I'm not a virgin anymore life will never be the same" moment.
Where did you do it, on a bed, standing up, or something different?: On his bed

It's important to be sure you're ready, I thought for a very long time until I decided I was. It's also important to make sure you're with someone you absolutely trust. You don't want to later be worried that he will tell people or spread stories about you, etc.

Its a plus to already be totally comfortable with each other. My boyfriend and I were like an old married couple by then, so neither of us were embarrassed to be naked in front of the other.
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Old 09-03-13, 07:34 AM   #5
 
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How old were you when you first had sex? i was 15
Where were you? in a forest near our school (yea trashy ik)
Was it with another virgin? nopee he has had sex with two girls before me.. he wasnt my boyfriend either
Was it nice? It was actually pretty uncomfortable at first, but then it was pretty nice
For girls, did it hurt/bleed? Nope i felt no pain.. and i didnt bleed, cause my cherry was already popped before that
Were you scared? I was REALLY scared..mostly because of the pain
Where did you do it, on a bed, standing up, or something different? we were lying down on the grass

In general, I lost my virginity in a very crappy way.. and I totally regret it and I'm like crazy mad at myself.. but I mean, if you think you're 100% ready.. don't let anything stop you.. just stay protected and make sure that you are ACTUALLY 100% ready.. ask yourself this question.. if you guys split up after you guys had sex.. would you be okay with that? if it's yes.. i don't think you're ready to do it with him
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How old were you when you first had sex? 21, last December to be exact.
Where were you? In my boyfriend's room
Was it with another virgin? No
Was it nice? The first time, not really. It hurt too much for it to feel good. It only started feeling good on the third time. The foreplay was good though :')
For girls, did it hurt/bleed? It hurt quite a lot for me. I have a crap pain tolerance though, it probably won't hurt as much for other people I didn't bleed as much as I thought I would, but I did bleed.
Were you scared? A bit.
Where did you do it, on a bed, standing up, or something different? On a bed.




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How old were you when you first had sex? 12

Where were you? In my boyfriend's room

Was it with another virgin? Don't think so: he was 17

Was it nice? Very much!

For girls, did it hurt/bleed? Just a little...

Were you scared? Not all! He were more!

Where did you do it, on a bed, standing up, or something different? First on his bed, after in the bathroom while taking a shower...
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I was -- years old and we did it on the ------- ----- at -- ---- -----. we were alone... oh wait no... I was alone. I'm a virgin still lmfao .-.
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I am reticent to describe when sex for me first began as it is not appropriate here. However, one my most sweetest memories was when I was 14 on a cruise with my parents, and this I share with you now.


A story of love remembered from years gone by


She smiled shyly and lowered her eyes; a demure action from opposite me where we sat at a street cafe. There was no mistaking then. Her head tilted slightly to one side when I spoke to her; her pupils enlarged as she lisped back about the day that she enjoyed on the ship from whence we'd embarked; strangers then. She asked me questions about myself. Like, what was it about archery that attracted me instead of some other sport? And how old was I, to which I spoke honestly. And all the time we talked she never took her eyes off me once.

The nearby traffic noise paled away as she spoke of a recent relationship going sour, and it was then that our fingers unclasped to reach out and touch the other's. She asked me for a cigarette, so I opened the carton and offered her one. I struck a match and cupping it, enclosed her shaky hands in mine as the flame lit the pungent Turkish tobaccos, and all the time our eyes never wandered from each other's. Moments passed as she inhaled the sweet smoke and I let the time linger in quiet, seductive minutes until she extinguished her cigarette. I said let's return to our ship, and after leaving payment for our coffees on the table I took her hand in mine and led her back.

On our return, we didn't say anything except occasionally exchange fond glances; the attraction was already there just waiting to spill out on the sheets in that memorable afternoon. And as I sit, I remember her dark hair falling like a mantle about our faces as we clung to each other in those precious moments of a stolen lover's tryst. All it took was that one demure look, that shy lowering of her forty year old sooty eyelashes and her softly thanking me in the afterglow.
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How old were you when you first had sex? Where were you? Was it with another virgin? Was it nice? For girls, did it hurt/bleed? Were you scared? Where did you do it, on a bed, standing up, or something different?
I was 14; in a hollow in an old castle; he was a virgin, too; it was lovely until he came too quickly and hadn't brought a second condom; no pain or blood; was terrified; on a beach towel in a sandy hollow in an old castle on a sunny afternoon.

I actually wrote a book about losing my virginity. Search my name if you think it might be useful to you. I wrote about our first petting, too. All the apprehension as well.

Good luck. Don't rush it and don't do it until you really want to.

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