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View Poll Results: Could you have sex with someone you do not love?
MALE - Yes 17 37.78%
MALE - No 4 8.89%
FEMALE - Yes 8 17.78%
FEMALE - No 16 35.56%
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Old 29-03-13, 11:00 AM   #1
 
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Default Could you have sex with someone you do not love?

I would say so. I wouldn't say I would, but I could. And that's also not to say that I cannot gain a lot from deep, emotional sex. Trying not to get graphic here, but to me sex is just as much physical as it is emotional. And depending on the relationship, the emotional aspect might be so much more than the physical, and in other relationships the physical aspect can be so much more than the emotional.

So I want to know: Could you have sex with someone you do not love? Do you find this immoral? Do you find sex as something that HAS TO be done between people that love each other?
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Old 29-03-13, 11:08 AM   #2
 
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I say yes because everything is possible, it's not like some barrier is there if you don't love her.




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Old 29-03-13, 11:12 AM   #3
 
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I am incapable of experiencing romantic love. I would say the closest thing is the intimacy of close friendship. Doesn't preclude having sex, so yes.








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Old 29-03-13, 11:18 AM   #4
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LOL of course I could.
It's not immoral unless you're some die hard Christian, but that practice is archaic anyway.
Sex doesn't even have to be between two people who even remotely like each other.
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Sure thing. I don't think it's wrong or anything. Of course being in love makes it more special, but there's nothing wrong with meaningless sex.

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Sure. I mean, I'd prefer to at least know them well like a friend maybe. I don't think I would just hook up with someone I'd only just met.
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I have. I had sex with my boyfriend before we had any real feelings for each other. Sex and love are two different things.




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No, I couldn't and wouldn't have sex with someone I do not love.
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Old 29-03-13, 05:40 PM   #9
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Yeah I would, as long as I know them reasonably well I don't see what the problem is.









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Default Re: Could you have sex with someone you do not love?

I completely reject the notion of sex altogether, even if it were with someone I love.
However, if it were someone I love then I might make the exception.

Someone I don't love however? Well, doing the math here... It's not like I'd get any enjoyment out of it, and I don't like people touching me, I don't like having my space invaded, I hate being naked, so overall it would be pointless and irrational for me to have sex with someone I didn't love.

To me that's like eating vanilla ice cream without chocolate syrup. I love chocolate, hate vanilla. Vanilla is much better when covered in chocolate. Of course, it's still vanilla and vanilla is still gross no matter what - the chocolate just makes it more palatable.

Though I'd still prefer eating ice cream than having sex, but whatever. The point is no, I couldn't and wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't love. There would be no point in doing so. Although I'm also Asexual, so that's why. I mean if you're not attracted to someone, among other reasons, why have sex with them?









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