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Old 03-05-13, 12:44 PM   #1
 
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Okay, Well i just turned 15 two months ago, and I really want to tell my mom about me. Im Bi and it's just so hard for me to come out! I have already told most of my friends, except two... Their my guy best friends! I wouldn't want to lose them for the world.. I dont know if i should wait a little while or not. I mean if i ever told my mom i was Bi she'd DISOWN Me, like i dont know what to do.. I also have a Girlfriend. Grrrr... Someone please help me?
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If your mom would disown you, then I don't see much point in confiding in her. Doesn't seem to me like she can be trusted along these lines.
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Old 18-05-13, 04:12 PM   #3
 
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Wait, has she told you this? That she'd disown you? If not, you cannot be making assumptions. If you're assuming that she'd "disown" you, then I'd suggest you tell her anyway, because you'd never know. You can sit her down, explain to her that you have something important to tell her, and be sure to explain to her that it is who you are and what makes you happy. She's your mother, she should accept you and love you no matter what. I imagine that she'd most likely act funny for a little bit, but allow her to warm up to the idea. She'll come around.

Also, your friends - just tell them. If they cannot accept you for who you are, they were never your friends in the first place.

And, does your girlfriend know? If not - tell her! It's never healthy to have a relationship and not be open with one another.




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I mean if i ever told my mom i was Bi she'd DISOWN Me
Are you quite certain of that?
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Also, your friends - just tell them. If they cannot accept you for who you are, they were never your friends in the first place.
What she said. If you lose them for telling them that, they probably weren't worth having.

And about your mom, are you close with her?
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like everyone is telling u is true and yea if u tell ur mom and she trust u and if u have told ur friends and they don't believe u then they don't want to be ur friends anymore that means they don't trust u
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Old 20-05-13, 12:46 PM   #7
 
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If your mom would disown you, then I don't see much point in confiding in her. Doesn't seem to me like she can be trusted along these lines.

My mom won't disown me..its just that im really scared that she wont accept me. I really dont want her to think different about me:(
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It won't be easy. But i think in the end she'll be understanding. She's your mother. She'll love you no matter what. I'd just tell her you need to talk to her seriously. Parents tend to respond in a good way to their kids coming to them. As for your friends. If their guy friends why would they leave over you being bi? I mean just tell them, if they don't accept you for you then well what kind of friends are they anyways?
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Old 21-05-13, 12:42 PM   #9
 
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Yeah your Right, Honestly I dont think the one i havent told isnt fully straight, my mom thinks he's gay, but i havent seen it.. He'll joke around with both guys and girls but im just not to sure about him. Im thinking about asking him to hang out with me this weekend. Like for the last 3 years, we always went to the fair together, he'll buy me ice cream and he'll spend some of his money on me, which i dont like but he'll do it anyways. We went on every ride together, walked around the fair together, But the weird thing is.. In the 5th grade he's never said one single word to me, he hated me.. until i joined this program called ' Community Connections" its a really fun summer program, but during the summer after 6th grade, i was eating alone at this table, and he sat and talked with me for a long while. He got to know me alot better and now were like closer than close. Maybe with him it can be easier than telling my mom. Im really going to wait for the right time to really tell my mom about me, and that its who i am..
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Okaay. Everything I was supposed to say is said. [whut?]

Anyway, I just had to say that.

Good luck though.
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