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Old 09-01-17, 04:27 AM   #1
 
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hey so basically as you can probably tell from the title im just really confused.

the deal is that ever since i was young i've always been admiring other guys. even into puberty it was simply admiration, rather than a sexual attraction. however once i started masturbating more and more i found that it would turn into a sexual attraction when i was horny (which led to gay/bisexual porn etc).

however now im 18 and i've had more experience. i find that im still only attracted to guys when horny. normally id consider myself straight, im into girls, ive had sex with them etc. however once im horny this all changes - ill be into guys, ill be fantasizing about my friends etc

now this kinda sounds like ur typical he's gay but in denial story... but the part that is totally confusing me is the fact that when im not horny im not into guys. like at all. i'll be horny, look through craigslist, or be at a party and i'll hookup with a guy and it'll be fun and all in the moment but as soon as i cum i'm repulsed. i want nothing to do with what i just did and i feel like i need to take an extremely long and hot shower.

so yeh there's my confusion... im literally only attracted to guys when horny. has anyone else experienced this? anyone got any help or advice? my dilemma is that since this is an 'only while horny' thing im not at all ready to tell people that i might be bi or anything like that, cus in this day and age that spreads like wildfire and im just worried that if i did that my infatuation for guys whilst horny might fade. but on the other hand, not being out means that i have to resort to things like craigslist to explore all this shit thats infesting my mind.

sorry about the long post - this is the first time ive actually spoken about this

thanks so much for ur advice/support
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Old 09-01-17, 06:56 AM   #2
 
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You had an eye for guys from a young age, and you've hooked up with guys. This doesn't have to be the end of the world for you. This just opens you up to a load of possibilities. You just need to learn to accept yourself for who you are and what you like. I know it's easier said than done, but whether you like girls and boys or only boys isn't a bad thing. There's a pressure to share your sexuality with people, but unless they are your partner, I don't see a need. It is between you and who you love. And the reality is that from day one you will be coming out every single day for the rest of your life. The world isn't just black and white anymore. We have shone light into all the corners of the room, and it is brimming with color. No one has to know who or what you are just because they occupy the same space as you. You have the rest of your life to learn who you are. There is no rush. Be more open with yourself, don't be scared of who you are, just BE!
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@SamuelM couldn't have put it better myself




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I am straight but I still occasionally enjoy masturbating in the adult theater with guys there and attending Jack & Jill parties once a year. But, I follow one very strict rule: ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT OR TOUCHING OF ANY KIND! I just watch others masturbate. That's it. My girlfriend loves two cocks sometimes. So I do engage in DP, double BJs and double vaginal penetration rarely. The second guy always wears a condom and I don't. Don't sweat it.
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