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Old 14-02-17, 02:02 PM   #1
 
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Hi everyone. OK I am 22 years old. Obviously I am not a teen so I apologize for posting here but had no idea where else I could post my question.

Anyways I have never been with a girl,kissed a girl or anything at all and I am so curious what sex feels like.

I was wondering is it a good idea to have my first sexual experience with an escort or will I regret it?
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Old 14-02-17, 02:08 PM   #2
 
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Who knows. Perhaps it could become the best experience in your life, or the worst at all, and you'll refuse having sex for ever. Depends ...
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Honestly, don't do anything until you are ready.

If you are thinking of having sex, just to have sex. Wait. If you're still a virgin at 40, so what? As long as you are unsure whether to have sex, or not, you shouldn't have sex.








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Old 14-02-17, 10:16 PM   #4
 
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I was wondering is it a good idea to have my first sexual experience with an escort or will I regret it?
How the hell should we know? That's a completely personal and subjective question, only you can answer it. Do you think you're the sort of sentimental or idealistic person who would regret not having your first time with someone you care about? If not, then you may as well go for the hooker idea. : P
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Old 15-02-17, 07:52 AM   #5
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It's completely up to you. Personally I think most people regret the circumstances in which they lose their virginity whether it's with the wrong person or wrong time.

If you're second guessing doing it then perhaps you should wait until you're certain or find someone else.









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Old 16-02-17, 05:48 AM   #6
 
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My advice, my bad if you'll get upset. Don't waste your love life on some hookers. Didn't you find that real love out there yet? If no, hookers aren't a solution. Just my opinion.




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Its your virginity to lose. If losing it to somebody you don't care about isn't an issue to you then I don't see the problem, however most people would be concerned by that. Losing your virginity is something that you'll always remember and its nice to share that with someone you love, regardless of your age. Again its up to you.




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Tom has a point though. A lot, if not the majority, of people end up regretting their first time in some aspect. In a way, having it be impersonal might be the safer choice, emotionally. You miss out on sharing it with someone you care for, but you also don't carry the risk of that relationship going bad and regretting giving your virginity to that person. Putting too much emotional weight on a single experience is actually kind of a bad idea. Things rarely go as we plan, especially in love.
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