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Old 14-05-18, 04:35 PM   #1
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Okay so there’s this super cute guy that I’ve been hanging out with on the weekends while at my friends house. This guy has totally been flirting with me and this past Friday night he tried some stuff. Everyone has gone to bed except for us and so we went down to my friends basement due to it being so hot upstairs. While down there however he starts like putting his hand on my thigh and holding my hand and he even put his legs on me. He also starts asking all these questions about gay sex (keep in mind he’s supposedly straight and I’m a gay 14 year old boy) then he eventually asks me if I want to have sex with him (he’s 17) I reluctantly reply no and then we sit together for a little while before he says he wants to go upstairs and go to sleep (it’s like 5 AM we were down there for like 3 hours) so we go up and he goes to sleep. Then the next day he leaves super early and I do the same not long after. But on Sunday I decided to confront him about the whole thing because Ireally like him. So I told him that I would do it with him next weekend and I would like for him to be my first kiss. But he replies back with all these messages saying how he didn’t actually like me and he was just asking me that stuff because he wanted to learn how much I valued myself and then he said that the reason he was touching me was because he was high and he can’t control himself. I told him my feelings and that’s what he said that everything he did was just a test.
Idk what to do about this I’m very upset and I want us to get together but idk what’ll happen after this.
Should I have said yes to him? What do you think will happen now?
I just need some advice and opinions about the matter.
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Old 14-05-18, 07:39 PM   #2
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If i were you i wouldn't do nothing with him. Weird guy i find. He said you it was just a test. It's my opinion but he is not trustworthy. Do not make the mistake of have sex with him even if you like him. He could break up with you right after. You should think about it logically, literally for a moment. It's my advice. After you do what you want.
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Old 15-05-18, 07:53 AM   #3
 
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Default Re: Help me!!! Idk what to do

I also know such "tests" from girls.

However, the behavior of guy is a lot more strange. If he was stoned, his behavior may still be understandable, but personally I consider his statement a mere excuse.


No matter what drove him to behave this way, you should be careful. In any case.


If he really cares about you, it's up to him to take the next step. And it should be a very plausible step, whose veracity should also be easily checked.

However, I guess he is just a player.
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Old 15-05-18, 01:50 PM   #4
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I agree with lliam.
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