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Old 24-10-08, 11:01 AM   #1
 
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Do any of you have, not exactly crushes, but have a certain type of attraction towards say your best friend that's the same gender? Because I'm worried that I'm really affectionate towards my best friend, who is also a girl. But I know I have a big crush on a guy.

Anyone experienced this before?

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to be honest no I havent experienced it. I think you maybe bi?
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I've no idea what I am lol
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I have no idea what your feelings are and I don't know what to tell you. You sound confussed about your sexuality. Have you had feelings towards other girls or just your friend. Maybe you might be bi.
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I'm not sure whether I find other girls attractive as in comparing myself to them.

I'll put it like this. I think if someone put a picture of a really pretty girl and a really fit guy in front of me, I'd find them both attractive, but the guy more so. But like I said. The comparing thingy

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I had friend who was confused about what she liked more. Til One day she came out and say she was Bi. It wasn't really a shocker to me, because she looked at girls more than guys. I believe I was only 15 =\

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Do any of you have, not exactly crushes, but have a certain type of attraction towards say your best friend that's the same gender? Because I'm worried that I'm really affectionate towards my best friend, who is also a girl. But I know I have a maaaaajor crush on a boy in London.

Anyone experienced this before?
Damn, Yeah i went through the same thing.
But i wanted to be with him all the time, I just thought it was a good friendship at first, But since i have realised i was gay xD
Doesn't mean you are bi or anything, You can just be really close. That's nature for you.
But if you have sexual feelings for example, You could be bi
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We've got loaaaaaaaaaaaaads in common, and we are close, we've known each other for about a year now, and been best friends for most of that time, sat next to each other most lessons. I really enjoy her company, but I don't think I have any 'sexual' feelings, but we're never apart, and I'm pretty affectionate towards most of my friends. I be confused

I tend to find guys more attractive though

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We've got loaaaaaaaaaaaaads in common, and we are close, we've known each other for about a year now, and been best friends for most of that time, sat next to each other most lessons. I really enjoy her company, but I don't think I have any 'sexual' feelings, but we're never apart, and I'm pretty affectionate towards most of my friends. I be confused

I tend to find guys more attractive though
The chances are that you are just best friends lol
You do come attatched to your best friend, Girls especially, I don't know why.
Don't rule out being bisexual/bi-curious; But the chances are you are just best friends.
Don't worry about it! Things come clear as time goes on.
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