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Every guy gets to the point where he wants to be intimate enough with his girl to have his hand in her pants (whether or not she's wearing pants), and most girls want to get to that point, too. But no guy really knows what it feels like to a girl and there's no way for him to know what a girl needs to reach orgasm as every girl is different.
So, what to do? Usually your first time, a girl lets you open the front of her pants and get your hand inside her underwear. It's best if she'll spread her legs a little to give you room for your hand. You can feel the outer lips with your fingers, and using all four fingers rub in a circular motion for a minute or two. Then take your middle finger and gently rub the crack until you can get your finger inside. The clitoris is at the top. You can feel the hood as a little lump. Now go a little farther down and look for the opening to the vagina. Some girls will be wet, then you're in luck. Some will be dry, so you have to work a little harder.
Your goal is to get some of her wetness and use it for lube to rub around her clitoris. If she's dry, gently and slowly work the end of your finger into the opening of her vagina and using the tip, move it gently in and out to stimulate her to get wet. Now comes the important part: you have to learn how to do it for HER, as all girls like it different. Ask her to put her hand on yours and teach you how to do it. It doesn't matter if you've done it for other girls, each has her own way of doing it. You're going to be surprised at how non-rhythmic some girls like it. Some girls want you to rub all around their clitoris gently, some want their clits rubbed hard, some want you to put a finger in their vaginas and some don't care for it. Usually what works is to go back down to the vj often to get more wetness to massage the clitoris. Some girls like your finger inside and if you feel about halfway in on the top of the vj there's kind of a hard place that's called the G spot. Some girls like to have that rubbed and will orgasm quickly that way. Some won't.
A girl may be not be able to relax around you enough to orgasm so you have to ease into things a little at a time. You may have to talk her into giving herself an orgasm with you holding her, or with you touching her hand with yours to see how she does it. With some girls it takes time, and with some girls it happens really quick. Either way, there's nothing like having your other arm around her shoulder and holding a kiss while she comes. If you get good at it you're going to have a good intimate relationship.
Every girl has sex for the first time sooner or later, and most guys are faced with the prospect of having sex with a virgin sooner or later. A girl's first time experience can affect how she feels about sex for the rest of her life, and will certainly affect how she feels about having sex with you in the future, so you should do the best job you possibly can to see it's a positive experience for her.
Unlike guys, losing virginity can be painful and embarrassing for a girl so let's do the best job we can.
Most girls lose their virginity in missionary position. They're usually scared and embarrassed and they're depending on you to take control since they guy is supposed to know what he's doing (I don't know how if it's your first time, too.) Some girls are adventurous and want to take charge and be on top and things like that, and if they are that 's wonderful, but most are not.
Do lots of cuddling with your clothes off and tell her things like she's perfectly proportioned, she has a figure like a model, she looks like a painting in a museum, you had no idea she was so beautiful, she's the most beautiful creature in the universe, you get the idea. If you're checking each other out and you want to look at her pussy, say, "That's so cute!!" Don't criticize her at all now, she's very vulnerable, and don't act disappointed if she want's to keep a sheet on top of her out of shyness.
The secret to a successful first time is lube. Some girls will be very wet, the more the better. But most won't because they're scared and nervous. Astroglide is awesome but expensive. If you don't have anything else, use butter - it's non toxic, you can eat it, or anything like that. Don't try using soap, it stings like hell. If she's dry and you don't have anything you can try giving her an orgasm with fingers or oral to make her wet. If you can't make her wet, just cuddle and try another time, and assure her it's not her fault. DON'T ram it in if it's dry. It will cause extreme pain and bleeding.
I'm going to make a suggestion that some may find a bit controversial: Make your first entry bare so you can feel any "draggy" spots that she'll experience as pain. Check out planned parenthood's website on withdrawal method if your doubtful of doing this. If you don't stay in until you're close to ejaculating, you're about as safe as you are with a condom. The trick is don't stay in if you start to get close. If you or she are completely opposed to this, use a condom. Of course, if she's already on the pill, and a lot of girls are to regulate their periods, then you don't have anything to worry about - that's what the pill's for. Of course, since she's a virgin you can't catch any STDs.
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When the big moment comes, rub your head - the little one - up and down against her flaps to push them aside. Then you'll feel where it goes. Make a very small entry, not even the head, then out a little and in a little farther. Ask her if she's ok, That's important. Try putting her hands on the sides of your hips and have her guide you. Some girls will happily do it, but some are too scared at this point Some girls won't tell you if it hurts so you have to be sensitive to her feelings. Then out again and in again a little more each time until you're about halfway in. Ask her again if she's ok. It's ok to stop and rest at this point if she want's to.
When you're all the way in, enjoy the feeling for a while, then withdraw and put on the condom to finish unless she's on the pill. Most girls are too nervous to move during their first times so be sensitive to any movements she may make. Let her lead some if she will. Otherwise it's all up to you. If she'll guide your movements, even a little, it will be better.
Don't forget the after-sex cuddling. It's not much for us guys, but it's very important for girls. Touch her all over with your finger tips, tell her again how beautiful she is and what a wonderful experience it was for you (even if something went wrong) and how much you're looking forward to doing it again. That means a lot to a girl, even if you really want to get up or go to sleep. Do it and you won't regret it.
Above all, be patient and loving. Most people's first times are awkward and not very good so don't expect a lot out of it. It gets better.
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Nabokov posted this in the Boy's only forum but I think it belongs here. I wish I had known this with a couple of girls.::::
If you're in a relationship, or you just generally like giving oral sex to a girl, then this guide is for you. If you're against the idea based on some childish "it's icky and wet" sort of thing, then get over yourself, and get down there.
Tongue to lips
Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening.
When you begin to give her oral sex, it's important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won't like is an overachiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favorite flavor; if you don't like ice cream, we're sure you can still appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don't get tense.
Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you've done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterwards
Warm her up
Before you remove her underwear, breathe hot air through it against her genital area. Breathe softly but warmly for short bursts at a time. You can alternate between doing this and kissing her thighs and stomach.
Don't dive in
When you begin to kiss and lick her vulva, work your way in slowly from the outside. Start by licking the outer edges of the outer lips (labia), then very slowly spread them, and lick and kiss the inner lips, and around the vagina. Do this gently, as though you were still teasing her. You'll work your way up to more intense action eventually.
Lick the alphabet
If you're not sure which strokes are best to approach the clitoris, try Sam Kinison's famous suggestion and lick the shape of every letter in the alphabet as a means of offering a wide variety of approaches. Make them wide from time to time to cover the whole genital area, and make them small at other times, centering on the clitoris itself.
Suck it up
As she becomes more aroused, you can gently suck her clitoris into your mouth and flick your tongue over it. This combines suction with a much faster rhythm. Women like that.
Get your whole face into it
Use your nose, cheeks and chin (clean shaven; no one wants sandpaper down there), and move them around. Even if you're just using your mouth, shaking your face from side to side and up and down will enhance friction in a great way.
Use your fingers
Penetrating your woman with one finger and making a "come here" motion is a great way to locate her G-spot, which will raise the ante of her orgasm. Even if you don't know where her G-spot is (it's good to have some experience with it beforehand), just penetrating her as you lick her. You can also alternate between penetrating her with your penis and pleasuring her orally.
Know when to continue
When your woman gets close to orgasm, make sure you do everything she wants you to. No matter if you have a kink in your neck or your arm's falling asleep, keep doing exactly what you're doing until you're sure she's had her orgasm.
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