[tandem]

Okay I had sex for the first time last year when I was 15. It was with Steven my bfs friend and it did feel special but we broke up a few days later. My boyfriend who im with now has a problem that I never had sex with him first and with him being friends with my ex he always argues with me and accuses me of still liking him and flirting with him when I never do that. Im thinking about leaving him because he always gets angry with me about it. What can I do? I do like him but he keeps bringing this up when we see my ex and we end up arguing. He says things like oh you would be better with him and things like that.

~Tandem~

[Antigone]

Perhaps you should just break-up with him - but still make it clear that you don't like your ex.

Reason being is in the long-run of things. If he can't let it go now and you two remain together, he'll always remember it and thus will keep bringing it up.

Or maybe you can just attempt to have a rational talk with your bf... Don't know if that'll work, but it might.

[tandem]

I think I will have a talk with him and see how it goes but if he keeps doing I just have to leave Thanks

~Tandem~

[electricelf]

Finish him and go out with someone better, if he cant accept the facts of your life he has issues serious problems there.

[Zane]

Originally Posted by Tayune

Perhaps you should just break-up with him - but still make it clear that you don't like your ex.

Reason being is in the long-run of things. If he can't let it go now and you two remain together, he'll always remember it and thus will keep bringing it up.

Or maybe you can just attempt to have a rational talk with your bf... Don't know if that'll work, but it might.

How do you always post the same things I was going to?

I agree with Tayune, it would be best to just break up with him.

[Antigone]

Originally Posted by Zane

How do you always post the same things I was going to?

I agree with Tayune, it would be best to just break up with him.

They say great minds think alike... But they never said one couldn't beat the other to the punch. lol

I personally think talking would help but if it does not, then she should leave.
Which is what she said she'd do...

Oh, I forgot to say:

You are welcome, Tandem

[tandem]

Ive spoken to him now and he says he will stop. Im really happy hes said he will stop because it was really upsetting me. If he doesnt stop I will be leaving as soon as he does and he knows it thanks for all the help everyone