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Old 11-03-10, 10:46 AM   #1
 
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im having real trouble at the moment with these three absolute , well theyres no other word for it , bitches at the moment. theyre such idiots and i dont see why they have to turn the whole world, well it feels like it , against me. i feel so alone only 5 people in my college will talk to me. i feel so alone. theyre so stupid . its just pathetic and i feel like a real idiot getting bothered by it but after a month its starting to get me down

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Old 11-03-10, 11:06 AM   #2
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Millie,

They don't matter, Ignore them, try to talk to others to gain friendships, and after all, if people see you talking and being nice to others, they ain't going to care what these other three girls think of you or say about you, as they will know the real you, and not some creation from someone elses head.

So, keep your head up and ignore them, talk to others and be polite, and after a while, like all bullies, they'll get bored and move on. After all, all bullies are are big fat attention seekers and if you don't give them the attention that they crave to have, they're going to get bored and move on.

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Old 11-03-10, 11:12 AM   #3
 
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yeah...u should totally ignore them...jerks...hmph...
n stay cool

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Old 11-03-10, 11:31 AM   #4
 
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Millie,

They don't matter, Ignore them, try to talk to others to gain friendships, and after all, if people see you talking and being nice to others, they ain't going to care what these other three girls think of you or say about you, as they will know the real you, and not some creation from someone elses head.

So, keep your head up and ignore them, talk to others and be polite, and after a while, like all bullies, they'll get bored and move on. After all, all bullies are are big fat attention seekers and if you don't give them the attention that they crave to have, they're going to get bored and move on.

If you feel lonely at any time. Or want to talk, about anything, my inbox is always open

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Brilliant advice. You can't let people get on your chest like that. As Matt said, talk to other people to gain new friends, when you meet more people and gain more friends, what those others think of you won't matter to you, because as long as you know who your real friends are, then you don't have to worry.

And as Matt also said, don't give the bullies attention. If they say something, ignore it, may it seem as if you're not bothered, even if it does bother you. Once they see that they don't get through to you, they'll move on. Or rather than completely ignore them, if they call you something, just say "Yeah, whatever" or something along those lines, just something that shows to them you aren't bothered by it.
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Old 12-03-10, 06:34 AM   #6
 
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Default Re: sometimes i begin to despair :(

If you let people get to you, you are basically letting them win! You need to keep smiling stay strong and confide in those that do still talk to you! My sister had this happen a while ago now and everything turned OK in the end! Don't give up Stay smiling and try to give the impression that your always happy!

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Old 12-03-10, 10:09 AM   #7
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If I where you I would try to talk to lots of people and make as many friends as you
can if they see that your nice then people will see that and think that your a cool
person to be friends with and then they'll begin to like you. Also keep close to the
people who talk to you at the moment, they're the people who are your real friends !

As for those 3 idiots you mentioned, forget them, they seem like total bitches as you said.








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