[notexactlyJuliet]

She's has the flattering clothing (even when its guys clothing), perfect make up and clean skin, her hair is always just right, and she shows just enough skin. She lies, all the time and almost always gets away with it. She has twice as many guy friends as girlfriends and even though shes failed half a dozen classes she still gets through school. why her? why does she only have to bat an eyelash and all the guys come running? why can she say anything and everyone either sympathizes or laughs? Why am i not good enough? why can't i win every once in a while? what am i doing wrong?


sorry just bitching

[Rogan]

Alex, try not to compare yourself to her, she's not worth it. You're not doing anything wrong at all and one day, all your hard work and determination will pay off and you'll come out on top. Lies always get found out and no god ever comes of it so one day she'll fall flat on her face because of it and there won't be anyone there. If she's failing classes then she's only ruining her future and you'll be able to get into that college or whatever that she won't be able to. And out of all those guys who bow down to her, how many of them do you think like her because of her personality or are they only seeing her "flattering clothing, perfect makeup and clean skin"?

Just try and not let it get to you and keep telling yourself that you're a more honest, decent person than she is

[Meta]

Ii have a friend exactly like this. and the annoying thing about her is that you can't be annoyed to her face. I've tried to get angry at her s many times but somehow she always manages to turn it around so that i see that I shouldn't be annoyed with her.

There is no point comparing yourself. You will come out on top at some point, probably pretty soon, because she can't get along forever in life by lying etc. People will soon realise this and suddenly realise that your there to. They probably already see you but because she takes the limelight, they find it hard to step around it.

This year, my friend has finally found out that she can't 'just get by' in school. She hates putting in the effort but has found out that her grades are all slipping because everything is just that little bit harder. I guarantee this will happen to your friend as well.

[DanielaPereira]

Alex, she can be pretty now, but she will not have a future... guys hung with her because they want to be "famous" like her... or they want to go to bed with her... either way, would you like to have all those "fake" friends??!! i think you might be hesitating but imagine, you tell a secret.. next day all of them know... so much for the secret...please try not to think about that.. she might be beautiful on the outside , but you have a brain and that's what matters..

[notexactlyJuliet]

Aww thanks everyone. It really just seems like i can't hang around her without feeling down. I have had huge fights in the end but she always came out on top even when she was wrong. i guess one day karma will do its job.