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Have you ever severed contact with someone / more than one person who you were good friends with? What were your reasons for doing this? Did you regret the decision afterward?
I've done it before, and have recently had to do it again. I think there's a part of me that hates getting close to people.
This could be to do with family members, ex's, or friends.
i have but it wasnt really total severing. It was with someone, who used to be my best friend when i was younger, we just stopped talking/texting/ hanging out although we had to see each other in school. SO AWKWARD. but yeah, she was really hurting me, so worth it.
♥. Just another day like any other,
Nothing in the sky said run for cover,
There was no parade,
No lightsflashing,
No songs to sing along the way. ♥
I've recently done it to someone but I'm begging to regret the decision. There wasn't a reason for doing it either, I was just upset at the time. I guess I just felt as though I wasn't worthy of being their friend or something...
Have you ever severed contact with someone / more than one person who you were good friends with? What were your reasons for doing this? Did you regret the decision afterward?
I've done it before, and have recently had to do it again. I think there's a part of me that hates getting close to people.
This could be to do with family members, ex's, or friends.
Never have I intentionally severed contact with an acquaintance, but I have done so unintentionally. During middle school I made some very close friends. Even after some time after middle school we remained good friends. However, eventually, as a result of my lack of effort, we ceased all communication. I haven't talked, or even seen, him in 3 months. It's a shame, really, because we were really good friends. Went through a lot together, however corny that may sound, but it's true. Perhaps eventually I'll pick up the phone and call him, but for now I just don't see a need. Additionally, I dislike being intrusive. We're both living our own lives now and I don't want to intrude.
My closest friends, I realised, treated me like shit, and now that I've noticed that, I can't be bothered being close to them anymore, so I've gradually distanced myself from them, I still know them, and I hang out with them, but I've sort of...emotionally detached myself from them, and in the process of finding out what they're really like, I've realised what other people are like, some people...I've gotten closer to because of it, some people...the opposite :(
Today's Toppers
Severing Contact
