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So, there is this group of really pretty girls in my year and everybody likes them and all the good looking boys in the years above think they're gorgeous. And the thing is i reaaaallly want to be friends with them, so much:/ everybody likes them and they're really funny and I'm so jealous of them :( and you'd think making friends with them would be so easy but they're really specific on who they talk to and are friends with. I've tried talking to them but they look at me like i'm weird. Lately ive been having spray tans and i've bought expensive make-up but i still don't think im pretty enough to be there friends, ive also stopped eating and im finally starting to tone, so then i have more chance of them liking me . What else can i do?
This is very silly. If they are willing to speak to you (or look at you) like a normal person, then why are you wasting your time with them?
I'm going to assume you're quite young, as I can't imagine anyone old enough would be doing this. Not everyone is going to be your friend, and these girls sound like the stuck-up, "popular" type that people only give a damn about because they're attractive.
You shouldn't have to purchase make-up and stop eating to become friends with people, it's immature.
To be honest being popular isn't everything, the popular people are usually the ones who everyone else hates because they
are so stuck up and don't give a damn about anyone else. If they aknowledge you as weird then they obviously you are wasting
your time trying to be their friends, not everyone is friends with everyone. You shouldn't buy things or do things to impress people,
they should like you for who you are. Not eating is a stupid thing to do, it can lead to eating disorders which nobody wants and
it can affect people in so many ways which can ruin their lives.
A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kick boxing.
awh, i don't particularly agree with the way the other comments were written To be honest, kinda harsh? Look all you need to do is be nice I know girls like that who are lovely and they like it when people come up to them and chat. Maybe compliment them? everyone likes a compliment! and i'm sure once they get to know you, they'll like you And don't be intimidated by them, they'll all have flaws and things they don't like, just like everyone else. They're normal people, and they may be popular but I've met a lot of popular people and they are some of the kindest sweetest people i have ever met good luck lovely , xxx
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This is very silly. If they are willing to speak to you (or look at you) like a normal person, then why are you wasting your time with them?
I'm going to assume you're quite young, as I can't imagine anyone old enough would be doing this. Not everyone is going to be your friend, and these girls sound like the stuck-up, "popular" type that people only give a damn about because they're attractive.
You shouldn't have to purchase make-up and stop eating to become friends with people, it's immature.
awh, i don't particularly agree with the way the other comments were written To be honest, kinda harsh? Look all you need to do is be nice I know girls like that who are lovely and they like it when people come up to them and chat. Maybe compliment them? everyone likes a compliment! and i'm sure once they get to know you, they'll like you And don't be intimidated by them, they'll all have flaws and things they don't like, just like everyone else. They're normal people, and they may be popular but I've met a lot of popular people and they are some of the kindest sweetest people i have ever met good luck lovely , xxx
Harsh? They were being honest and truthful and I don't see how it is harsh, they are right by what they said.
May I ask why exactly do you want to be their friends? While i do agree people may have to make small compromises in order to have and maintain a stable friendship, if you have to starve yourself, put make-up on, and use spray tan in order for them to even talk to you I hope you think twice whether what your getting in return is worth it.
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I want them to like me :(
I know girls like that who are lovely and they like it when people come up to them and chat. Maybe compliment them? everyone likes a compliment! and i'm sure once they get to know you, they'll like you
