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okay so, i have a best friend (1), she is 14 and dating a 12 year old (2), who is quite mature for his age. 1 used to date 5, before 2
he has an older brother (4) who is dating this girl (3) who is giving my best friend a lot of problems.
3 used to date this 19 year old and when she broke up with him, 1 started talking to him and they became close friends. eventually 3 got jealous, that was last year.
3 is now dating 4 and since 1 became gf of 2, 3 started talking bad about her and him, saying they tried to have sex in school and blah blah blah.
3 also spread a rumor saying that 1 is the school slut.
but 1 is still a virgin and never did anything of that sort.
for some reason, there are people who hate her and they dont even know why, they just hate her.
3's excuse was that 1 was flirting with her ex after they broke up and ruined 3's relationship with him.
but 1 only needed help with trying to get over 5
i would like to know your opinion about this and what could be done to exterminate 3, or make her see what the heck she's doing. it seems that she has nothing better to do. i hate her and she's bringing my best friends down alot and i just want her to f**k off
God it sounds like 3 is a lovely girl who in definite need of a swift kick up the backside. Unfortunately, with what you have displayed of her personality, I would think she might press charges if that were to happen.
In my opinion, it is probably best to tell a teacher or a parent what is going on. If it is a problem inside of school, then they should be able to nip it in the bud. If it is an outside problem, then maybe having a talk with the older brother (4?) would be a good idea. have you friend do it, but go with her and just explain what is going on, that she doesn't want to create a problem but what is happening is upsetting her because she has done nothing wrong. Just give it a go and see what happens.
You should talk to her and explain how she is hurting peoples feelings and how what she
is doing is wrong, tell her that she shouldn't be behaving in the way that she is. You
should talk to her about her relationship with her boyfriend and re-asure her that what is
done is done and can't be changed or altered.
A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kick boxing.
yeah i know right, plus she already has a new boyfriend.
thamls, we'll try it next wednesday, 5 day weekend and she almost ruined it...
thanks you guys
nah she wont press charges she started every thing and besides, it takes forever to do that here.
oh and 4 hates 2 for being with 1.
and 3 has like this clan of lots of people who hate 1 because she told them to.
wow that was confusing but yet understanding i c where ur comin from how about this
u shud sit her down and tell her exactly how u feel in a nice manner u shud just tell her how much shes messing things up so do that first talking it out is the first step
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