[Danny14]

maybe next time i'll tell mom, kinda too late now. she'd just get even more mad for not telling her two days ago. i know my sister just forgets and probably didn't think anyone would be coming upstairs. she is kinda figuring out that my friends like having her around more because she's got boobs, so maybe that make a difference.

[Marta]

When I was 12 I went to the hospital to have a surgery and during my recovery at the hospital I used to wear shorts and one day the nurse and my mum came to me and said that i couldn't be like that because of the older mans :s
I felt pretty bad with myself, but I've never used them there again..
Tell her jus to use a t-shirt and a shorts, and explain her the problem..

[Danny14]

Originally Posted by Marta

When I was 12 I went to the hospital to have a surgery and during my recovery at the hospital I used to wear shorts and one day the nurse and my mum came to me and said that i couldn't be like that because of the older mans :s
I felt pretty bad with myself, but I've never used them there again..
Tell her jus to use a t-shirt and a shorts, and explain her the problem..

you should come over and talk to my sister...

[Marta]

Originally Posted by Danny14

you should come over and talk to my sister...

If I could I would :p
Like she's steel a kid, she doesn't think in things in a pervert way, but your friends maybe do think about her in that way. Explain it to her, she is exposing herself too much and one day maybe she will regret it

[isha]

hey ur sista is gonna grow up at some point like when she goes on her periods but for the mean she is so used to it that its gonna be ard for her to change so i think you shud t ry as much as possible to do things for her like close her door coz i dont mean to be mean but sooner or later your friends are gonna want more than just see her half naked and anyway they are guys she shud have already reached a stage where she is uncomfortable when u see her half naked even though u are her brother.

[DevilFreaks]

Owow. Your sister needs to learn that she should dress for her body, not her age.

She has a more adult body, she should be fucking covering it. I hate to say it, but that part of her needs to grow up with her body.
It seems like YOUR friends are already eyeing your sis, someone's going to loose control and start messing with her. She's not trying to ask for it, she couldn't be she's too young, but she is.

To her it's not sexy, but as you said, other people see it as such. Where is your mother in this? Doesn't she realize what her little girl is turning into, physically? She's not a little girl anymore she's a young woman, and she has to learn this before she gets taken advantage of.

Not gonna lie, I did something similar then. Never wore a 1-piece bathing suit, tight form fitting tshirts and pants, and where'd it get me? Abused. -.-
Don't let that happen to your sis man.

[Danny14]

Originally Posted by DevilFreaks

Not gonna lie, I did something similar then. Never wore a 1-piece bathing suit, tight form fitting tshirts and pants, and where'd it get me? Abused. -.-
Don't let that happen to your sis man.

what happened to you?
you don't have to say if you don't want.

i don't think my friends want to do sexual things with my sister. they think she is cute and fun to have around, but they don't talk about wanting to sexual things with her. she does like to flirt with them a lot because she likes boys a lot, but she doesn't understand that older boys like sex and they will look at her in that way. like when we go to the mall, she'll talk with boys that are too old for her, and i can tell the main reason they are talking to her is because they would like to mess around with her if they could. she just thinks they are being friendly and nice to her, but i can tell they are thinking about wanting to do sexual things with her.

[Sam1]

Danny, your friends wouldn't necessarily tell you they were looking at, or feeling sexual towards your sister...it's just one of those friend things, guys aren't supposed to acknowledge they're interested in or aroused by their buds lil sister!

However, if your sister likes all that attention, and she's looking for it from older guys at the mall, you have to consider the probability that she's doing a lot (if not all of it) on purpose. This isn't such a good thing...

Talk with your mom, let her know what's going on here, she needs to help your sister manage her need for attention in a way that won't potentially get her into some trouble.

[Danny14]

yeah my mom already knows, and i didn't even have to tell her. my sister just likes to meet different people and talk to them about whatever. she doesn't care how old they are or anything. she likes boys a lot, so she tends to want to talk to them more when she can. even her friends think she is crazy sometimes because she'll just walk up to boys and start talking to them about anything. last year and the end of school she gave a speach in front of the whole school and she wasn't even nervious just a bit; doesn't matter if it one person or 1000s, she is the same way all the time. she always kind of been like that too, so its nothing new that she does stuff like that. its the sex stuff she doesn't understand and doesn't seem to really care either.

[Cougar88]

just whenever u walk past her door (whether she's half naked or fully dressed and doin whatever) close it ... she will soon get the idea ... she may get annoyed at u but tell her that ur annoyed at her 4 giving ur friends a free peep show ... she's 11, my guess she'll be wanting privacy very soon anyways ... she may stay a very open person about her dress 4ever but i doubt she'll wanna go into middle school having a bad/easy reputation by guys