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Re: My younger sister needs to be more decent when friends come over
Its ok to wear bikinis in the house and bikinis are ok to wear at the beach or friends pools even if boys are there/ its their fault if they are obsessed with s3x :(
Re: My younger sister needs to be more decent when friends come over
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Originally Posted by isabel
Its ok to wear bikinis in the house and bikinis are ok to wear at the beach or friends pools even if boys are there/ its their fault if they are obsessed with s3x :(
..this coming from someone wearing a bikini in their avatar!
There's a symmetry here btw'n Danny's sister and Isabel, yes? It's like they're one and the same...
Isabel, your task is to remember that other's often see or experience you a lot differently than you do yourself....it's called "self awareness". You want your own self image, the way you see yourself, to mirror the way others do. And if it's not, to adjust your behavior accordingly.
Re: My younger sister needs to be more decent when friends come over
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Originally Posted by Spock
There's a symmetry here btw'n Danny's sister and Isabel, yes? It's like they're one and the same...
Isabel is not my sister...lol. no way my mom would ever let my sister come to any teen forum, maybe when she's 20 my mom might let her.... hahaha. right now she can only send email\chat to her friends. i'm lucky they let me come here. however, my sister probably would like what Isabel has said.
anyways, my sister hasn't accidently flashed anyone lately lol. the other day when everyone was by the pool one of my friends did say that by next summer she is going to be "Hot!". He was kinda joking when he said that, but i kinda think he meant it a little. maybe he already thinks she is hot for 11, but won't say it. i don't know what to think anymore.
Re: My younger sister needs to be more decent when friends come over
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Originally Posted by Danny14
Isabel is not my sister...lol. no way my mom would ever let my sister come to any teen forum, maybe when she's 20 my mom might let her.... hahaha. right now she can only send email\chat to her friends. i'm lucky they let me come here. however, my sister probably would like what Isabel has said.
anyways, my sister hasn't accidently flashed anyone lately lol. the other day when everyone was by the pool one of my friends did say that by next summer she is going to be "Hot!". He was kinda joking when he said that, but i kinda think he meant it a little. maybe he already thinks she is hot for 11, but won't say it. i don't know what to think anymore.
I was joking, Danny! however, when you talk of your sister, and then Isabel talks about her situations, it's like two people telling the same story from different perspectives! Maybe you and Isabel can help each other out?
In terms of not knowing what to think, I really like the idea of not so much thinking about all this stuff your sis is doing, but telling your mom about it so she can address it with her.
Re: My younger sister needs to be more decent when friends come over
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Originally Posted by Spock
..this coming from someone wearing a bikini in their avatar!
There's a symmetry here btw'n Danny's sister and Isabel, yes? It's like they're one and the same...
Isabel, your task is to remember that other's often see or experience you a lot differently than you do yourself....it's called "self awareness". You want your own self image, the way you see yourself, to mirror the way others do. And if it's not, to adjust your behavior accordingly.
I'm more mature than his sis by far. Yep no problem.
Re: My younger sister needs to be more decent when friends come over
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Originally Posted by Spock
In terms of not knowing what to think, I really like the idea of not so much thinking about all this stuff your sis is doing, but telling your mom about it so she can address it with her.
there really nothing to tell her that she doesn't already know. i don't want her making rules that my friends can't come over or that that my sister shouldn't talk with them. i don't think it would do much good anyway, because that's the way she's always been. some things just don't bother her, and if it doesn't then she does things the ways she wants to do them. not like she leaves her bedroom door open so that my friends can see her, she just doesn't care if they do, like she doesn't close her door when they aren't here. she doesnt' care either way i think. if her friends come over they shut the door, so actually they do it for her most of time. they think she is crazy if she starts changing her clothes without closing the door first. she doesn't even care if they they think she's crazy too...lol