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im not sure, if youve gotten over this dilemma, but i wanted to help you out, and this is my first post in like 3 months (PS, do ya remember me?)
So, here it goes:- As far as I can remember, I havent thought of women like that for some reason, I mean, I know some really b*tchy girls, but I dont label the entire female population like that for the simple reason that its just too impossible to not like girls, for example, the girls I talk to are really understanding, and informative, and just plain out friendly,
like you said, a lot of girls arent b*tchy to you, talk to them for a change, and kind of reset your mindset dude, it usually helps me out all the time, in fact, my best friend is on this forum, usually, i just talk to her about stuff untill everything becomes clear..
if dating girls is your prob, well, i cant offer gr8 advice there, cause, well, how do i put this? umm *blush* ive never been out on a date, bt its only because there are certain restrictiond in my area that prohibit such activities..
In all fairness I'm put off the idea of dating for the time being; all the women closet to me seem to have abandoned me. May just stay single for life as it's too much hasle.
But then your opinion shouldnt be clouded, in my opinion that is, I mean, you said it yourself, member of the female kind on this forum are gr8, so why dont you just befriend them?
If its real ppl you mean, then, I have to ask, what happened to your existing friends?
Personally speaking, I didn't find any worthy guy (who wasn't related to me that is) until I discovered the wonders of being awesome on the internet.
In other words, the closest thing I've ever had to a relationship is with this guy online. We share a lot of the same opinions, morals, and values is what I mean.
So perhaps you can roam for a girl like that. Not really go out hunting for one or anything but just be on the look out?
Shitty advice I know, but you're right, you're probably going to get the "left-overs" so to speak, you wanna know why? Either they are dumb or give into peer pressure to easily. Then they convince the,selves they are perfectly fine until it all fucks up and explodes in their face... wait a minute, that could be taken the wrong way.
But fear not, good girls still exist. I'm one of them, so to speak, so it's not hopeless! All you gotta do is keep a positive attitude and keep those high standards. Anything less than the best should be a felony, in my humble opinion.
And then if that doesn't work... try internet dating. Lots of good girls think the same way about guys as well. Those are the girls you wanna go after and believe me, guys like you are in high demand for them.
Sorry if this is shitty, but it's what I think.
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If its real ppl you mean, then, I have to ask, what happened to your existing friends?
Most of my female "friends" I met in High School. Since we left (about a year ago) there's been no contact with the majority of them. I think I, very occasionally, still speak to two. I've only met 5 girls in college and I don't speak to any of them.
The typical scenario is that I meet/speak to a girl, keep in contact with them regularly for a month at the most, then very rarely/never speak to them again.
This is getting slightly off-topic though Doniv. This thread is regarding my opinion of most women, not why I don't speak to them.
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In other words, the closest thing I've ever had to a relationship is with this guy online. We share a lot of the same opinions, morals, and values is what I mean.
Same, though that friendship's turned to shit now.
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So perhaps you can roam for a girl like that. Not really go out hunting for one or anything but just be on the look out?
I try to avoid internet relationships whenever possible. I don't exactly visit websites where I can speak to women either.
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Originally Posted by Marietta
Shitty advice I know, but you're right, you're probably going to get the "left-overs" so to speak, you wanna know why? Either they are dumb or give into peer pressure to easily. Then they convince the,selves they are perfectly fine until it all fucks up and explodes in their face... wait a minute, that could be taken the wrong way.
It's not that I don't want a girl who's been in many relationships and has a past...I just want a girl with similar morals/values to me. In today's society, and especially around where I live, I seem to be the only one with them.
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Nah, your advice is great (as usual). I appreciate it.
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But fear not, good girls still exist. I'm one of them, so to speak, so it's not hopeless! All you gotta do is keep a positive attitude and keep those high standards. Anything less than the best should be a felony, in my humble opinion.
I agree. It's difficult though.
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And then if that doesn't work... try internet dating. Lots of good girls think the same way about guys as well. Those are the girls you wanna go after and believe me, guys like you are in high demand for them.
Well, decent people are hard to find these days regardless of their gender. They're out there, but they are a minority. Just keep looking, you'll find a good girl sooner or later. They can run but they can't hide
I used to think the same thing about men. It all changed whenever one said sorry to me for all the drama they caused and etc. I was amazed and my opinion changed. I do think that even as women we call girls sluts, whores, bitches, etc if they are acting like one.
Don't get me wrong.. I like talking to men and all.. I just prefer the same sex talking with.
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I suppose until I actually meet some decent there's not much else I can do.
