[Big H]

Well as some of you may know from a few of my previous threads my dad was barely around me when I was younger and up to this day our relationship is rocky. Along with him being in and out when I was younger me and my aunt used to be close, about every weekend I would go over to her house and we'd play video games and stuff. All of a sudden she started bringing in her ex boyfriend and his kids then all of a sudden it just stopped and I basically thrown to the corner once again.

I know its stuff that is out of my control but I do not know how to get over it mentally.

[Sam1]

Name change, eh? I like it...

OK, Big H, you're experiencing a sense of loss here, what you have now represents a loss from what you once had and enjoyed. And that (understandably) hurts. Fix? Talk with those people who are creating the loss for you.

A lot of times, people just live out their lives and deal with whatever changes they have to make by accommodating them. In your aunt's case, that means spending more of the time that was available to you with these other people. But, she might not realize how it affects you. So, you have to calmly and accurately describe for her what you're experiencing, and then remind her how important that time (and your relationship) are, and work out a plan so you still fit into her now changed life.

[isha]

dont let it get to you too much its a good idea you came here you can find people to talk to anyway why dont you try socializing a bit with your school mates?

[Big H]

Really just tend to keep to myself...not really a going over to friends for night type of person

As for fixing relation with aunt she was one that was involved with the whole FB family drama stuff, have not even called her since.