[gracie95]

i have a problem... pleaseee help me.. my self confidence is very very low...
i hate discos, i cant go there, and all my friends go there, so i stay home. second thing... my friends are all popular and iam definately not... i feel like shit.

[Individuality]

maybe ask your friends to go some where else apart from the disco?
And maybe your self confidence will go up and you will start attending the discos

[Cougar88]

what sarah said is a good option

personally tho i was trying to see how discos relate to confidence???

1. Go where u wanna go, but occasionally try new things. Just bc u hated a disco at "place a" with sum ppl doesnt mean u will hate disco at "place b" with diff ppl

2. Rlly try to work on ur confidence. U will be happier.

[David-]

I don't mean to sound harsh or un-sympathetic, because I am, trust me. But, you have to put forth the effort in order to change this. Hang out with your friends in different locations, find other things to do with them. And really, popularity is meaningless and irrelevant. (However, I know that for most "teens" popularity is everything. So, with that taken into account, I still stand with my "be yourself and don't worry about popularity so much.)

[|t'S ME]

I'm like you : )*
I might look confident to others, but actually I don't . If you dont know how to behave in any situations, learn from others . just keep watchin how they could be popular. My friends are popular too. I just keep learnin from them, what they do, how they talk to others,how they smile, blah blah blah~

Cause some people do know how to behave by their instincts,but some dont so they only try to learn from the first kind.

All the best!