[guyperson]

what am i supposed to say to a girl? I am antisocial and awkward but im like rly good looking and i want to talk to this girl i saw looking at me but i dont know what to say to her, like i literally do not know what words i should say because i am very shy and antisocial.


thanks

[hurrtnsyd]

haha.. I'm like that too.. except that I'm a girl.. well for starters, just say hi to her.. and ask her about her day..

[Itachi]

Try having a bit of courage and just be yourself because that's all you can be in the end.

Like Hurrtnsdy said, 'Hi' is always a good start.
Haha.

Figuring out what you want to say isn't always the best option. Just let the convesation flow where it's meant to and you'll be fine.

[Kirk]

Hello.

[|t'S ME]

I dont know it all
but I would say "Hi," too -- maybe continue like," hey ,I like your sneakers !where did you buy it?"

[Individuality]

Say " oi you!"

only joking

just say hey how are you. always strikes a conversation.

[Violet Surrender]

Are those tits real?










































Kidding. Go with what Kirk said... Hello.
Then just strike up conversation. It's the same thing as talking to a guy, except she has a vagina.

[HeyitzDiMatteo]

Hello is a great way to start it.
But make sure you keep the conversation going and make sure its not boring; But still be yourself. She should like you for you. Don't over think things, just say what comes to mind. Don't be afraid to compliment her either.

Well I'm done rambling.
Good luck!

[guyperson]

ok, i know how to say hello, but I'm not sure how to just " strike up conversation". i have no idea what to say or what to talk about. i never really talked to that many girls before and i guess since i never did it, i assume i probably am bad at it....which leads to less self-confidence.

[hallace]

I suggest you start small.
Such as just saying something out loud that is relevant to the situation.
Such as "Dangit" or "wow" or something simple that goes with the situation. Such as getting a lot of homework for the class you are in.(i assume you are in school) Don't automatically expect someone to hear or comment on this tho. It is to help yourself understand you aren't going to get hammered if you do talk. But if someone does, THEN strike up a conversation according to what you said above.


Back to just getting over your antisocial-ness. There is a lot more to communicating than just words. Facial expressions and body language helps a lot to. So let loose, now here is where making things up helps. Try to smile more, and or frown more and so on.


Now directly talking to the girl you like might seem like a lot already. And i will say it probably is.

You need to be comfortable with yourself with other random girls or just people in general.
A GREAT piece of advice when you are talking to someone you like. HAVE NO UNDERLYING MOTIVES!!!

Meaning don't try to learn anything about them, don't try to be anything, don't even TRY to be yourself. Yes that seems odd, but if you aren't trying to be ANYONE then you become yourself =P.

Good luck,
I use to have a REALLY bad self esteem, now i have a very good one just from time. Take your time and play your own game. It is also a game you can't lose in. There is really nothing you can do wrong when talking to other people.