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ok so, i want to run away from home. i live in north carolina , and i want to runaway to atl, ga. to stay with my bf. im 16 and he's 20soon to be turning 21 . and i will soon be turnnig 17. i kno for a fact that if my parents find me , that there going to want to press staturoy rape charges. but how can that be stoped if they have no real proove that we are having sex. ?? and also its not like i will not be going to school i will be moving to a school down there. and ik thats probly the first you have ever heard from a runaway child. but moving school would be the easy part. b/c my school that i go to they already let you do so much!!! like they let u get ur own transcript, and they let do just about anything that you would think that a parent have to do. but the thing a parent would have to do here is to sign the transcript and take it to the linclon center or w/e its called and confirm it or w/e u want to call it . so my school. is already settle. i just have to do that stuff. but i want to know if like if i go down there and get found , is it possible for them to bring me back.. but if i dont want to come back. is it poosible for me to charge for some type of kidnapp?? even if it is by police. ???? and ik ima have to aruge my out of rape charges. but i dont understand why . when he is not going to force me to do anything. or have me drugged, drunk etc. so on , ima very smart girl. so ik how to threw alot of things and especily like this. so in the state of ga. do ihave to go home if i were to get pregnant by this dued???? and please just answer all the questions i have. i dont want any letchures. ik runing away is stupid ,and it will worry myparents and family allot. but i just dont like were im at. and i even been in and out alotof drama that i didnt even start and its along story . but i dont any ltchres. or anything like
that . i just want advice and my questions be answerd .
Sounds very dangerous and really impulsive to me. So, the chances of it working out are probably close to zero.
There are lots of things you might want to do, but that doesn't mean you should actually go ahead and do them. This really falls under that category. At 16, you're too young to 'run away', to cross state lines, and to live with an adult. Both of you will get into a lot of trouble, you cannot consent to this, he cannot become your guardian and enroll you in school..the whole thing is hair brained.
Get a grip, deal with whatever it is that's causing you to consider actually 'Running away'...b/c the resolution of this is far preferable (and has a better chance of success) than your fantasy here.
im not really asking him to enroll me , i have someone else to do that for me. but like if do is it possible that the police will still find me. even if i go under a fake name. and in my state ur allow to buy and ride on a bus/train , to a different state. and ik there could be alot of concequences to this . if i actually go threw with it . but i just want to be with him. we been together for 2years in may. and i was thinking about going in auguest. and starting school there. but will it be an easer way of finding me
You're being incredibly stupid, I don't care if you don't want to be lectured. you're being sooo stupid. Yes, they're going to find you. 16 year old ran away from home, uh duh they're going to look for you and find you. Also, you being this selfish are gonna fuck your boyfriend over good for life, he's going to get in SERIOUS trouble for this. so are you, but even still he's way older. illegal age to be sleeping with you, and they will find out your sex and prove it and even if they don't have evidence he'll probably crack and admit it or whatever. It's just a very very bad idea all around and you're being sooo immature. You're 16. you don't fully know what you want in life, and the fact your 21 year old boyfriend is willing to take a 16 year old girl away like this, with all the stupidity involved, probably shows he may not be the best of guys to right away plan to have your wholeee life with. the fake name? really? that's not going to work. You're basically fucking yourself over and it's not going to work, don't be stupid and mess up your life, and your boyfriend's.
Also, you're worried about your parents kidnapping you? really? hell no they're your parents. your 16 not 18 you're not an adult you're their child. your boyfriend is going to be the one getting charged with rape and kidnapping. and you're not going to be able to stop them, either.
first of all i sed if the POLICE TRY TOO and second i never sed me and my boyfriend were having sex yet. AND THEIRDLY WEN HE IS 21 I WILL BE 17 WITCH IS ONLI FOUR YEARS and you dont know whats going on in my life right now so dont be calling me stupid. and he told me he wanted me to finish high school anyway but i told him i didnt want to. so dont talk about him like that.
Well, no duh the police are gonna try to. your parents arent just gonna let you run away and never see you again and do nothing. and you said "find out we are having sex" are meaning well, you are. and yes, he will be 21. you will be 17. four years not too bad, but when you're talking about running away with someone who's the illegal age to be with you, then yes, it's dumb. and i'm not saying your life is good or peachy or whatever, but i am saying it's gonna get fucked up way more if you go through with this. and i can call you stupid if you do this, because it is stupid. what's going on in your life doesn't matter it's the fact if you do something even more to add to it to make it worse which makes you stupid. and yes that's good he told you to stay, but he should be mature and responsible and not listen when you say "i dont want to" he should be thinking about what is really best for you, weather you like it or not.
Well it's a bloody hell lot better then you running away to him. he's 21. he wont get in trouble for running away and his parents cant make him stay etc.
but what if like we do end up having sex and im talkin about when im 17 n i do get pregnant by him , can my parents make me get an abortion/adoption. even if he is being supportive and everything. and im not saying i will get pregnant by him at 17 but if i do is that possible
Your parents cant make you get an abortion or adoption, that's your choice and if you do get a abortion, you shouldn't even have been having sex in the first place, it's not fair to kill the baby. They may, however make your life hell and try to kick you out. but, as i tell everyone if you're going to be having sex you should at least have a job and be working wether you need the money or not. you never know when you're gonna get preggo, or what's gonna happen if you do. you need to have money coming in and being saved up incase something does happen. you can't rely on your parents for ANYTHING in that case, including the roof over your head and you also cannot, no matter how faithful and loyal and sweet your guy is, expect to depend on him for supporting you and the child.
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