[Fourletterjames]

I have a problem, I like this girl and she likes me too and there is a big chance of us ending up in a relationship in the near future, that would be awesome except for one little problem. She is not the most liked by my friends and they tease and say rude things about her and whoever they think likes her. Is there anyway to stop this or is it something I would have to deal with if I ask her out. (and I cant just avoid them as everyone gets off at the same bus stop) Thanks for the help.

[16teengirl]

Okay have you ever tried telling your friends that you are dating this girl and they need to deal with it and be kind to her? If they don't care and start to not respect your girlfriend then i don't think they are really your buddies because there not acting like your're real mates. If the girl did something bad like cheat on you then that be different then i would understand why your mates are being rude about her but she hasn't done anything wrong. I think you should break the friendship with these guys and date and spend time with your girl. Good luck with that hope my advice helped you don't care what others think and your friends.

[Fourletterjames]

Originally Posted by 16teengirl

Okay have you ever tried telling your friends that you are dating this girl and they need to deal with it and be kind to her? If they don't care and start to not respect your girlfriend then i don't think they are really your buddies because there not acting like your're real mates. If the girl did something bad like cheat on you then that be different then i would understand why your mates are being rude about her but she hasn't done anything wrong. I think you should break the friendship with these guys and date and spend time with your girl. Good luck with that hope my advice helped you don't care what others think and your friends.

I would not necessarily say that they are really friends, they are just people that are at the same bus stop and we end up talking due to the lack of anything else to do while waiting for the bus. I would break it off with the so called friends, but it seems like it would do nothing as everyone gets off at the same stop. :\

[16teengirl]

well if there not your friends and are just students at the same bus as you and your girl then ignore them why listen to what they say? it's crazy.Next time don't talk to them when they are trying be friends with you they are the ones who are saying rude things about someone you like. Just imagion there not there like there nothing soon you would enjoy winding them up and they can walk away and take there little opinions about your girl somewhere else. ok understand?

[Coldwindblows]

Not to be rude or anything, but what do they say about this girl? because if its only snide remarks about her looks you should completely ignore them and tell them to screw off. But if its maybe something more serious involving her, you should probably talk to her about it. But i doubt its that, so my advice would be to just go on and ask her out! it could end up really well for you, and gain some valuable life experience. Even if the kids are making remarks about her and maybe you if you date her, just remember in high school.... once you graduate you just wont care what they say, you probably wont see more than a half of them ever again.. and probably only see 2 or 3 on a regular basis.

[Kirk]

From a personal point of view, I couldn't give a toss what other people think about my girlfriend (if I had one). Unless what they said was cause for concern (they claimed she was a cheater or something), then I would just ignore them and/or tell them to piss off.

Seriously dude, if you and her like each other; ask her out. Have a fun relationship and disregard people who are just being selfish and trying to ruin it for you both.

[Coldwindblows]

exactly what kirk said, do what you feels right they are just jelous that you found someone you truly care about and if thats the case i hope things go well for you!

Good lucky playa