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hi,
i signed up in this forum seeking for help, please, please, please help me..
My stepfather hits on me regulary, he onced touched me from behind so i turned and slapped him, that's where thngs got very bad, he beated me, and since he became so bad in handeling with me.
he's not my father and i never wanted him in the family, but mother loves him, and i just don't know what to do?
The last thing you should do is hide it. The longer you let it drag, the worse it becomes, and if it gets too bad, you'll be traumatized for life. Avoid it.
You should tell your mother about this, she should put a stop to it. No matter how much she loves him, she wouldn't let him beat her beloved daughter, would she?
If that fails, inform the local authorities. Calling the police would possibly solve it. No matter what you do, don't give up and don't bend. Expose it.
"If I do good, people might accuse me of selfish, ulterior motives, but I will still do it. Because I believe no one is malicious, not in their core, in their raw being.
The best in them is clouded by sorrows and fears, take those away and you'll bring out the brightest of lights in them.
Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
That is why, even if I might get disappointed, I'll always give the best I've got. A single candle can light a thousand others and still burn." - Skezra
In my opinion, the best thing to do would be to talk to your mother about this. If that's uncomfortable at this point for you, then talk to a counselor or teacher, another adult that you trust. Don't let the problem continue though.
The last thing you should do is hide it. The longer you let it drag, the worse it becomes, and if it gets too bad, you'll be traumatized for life. Avoid it.
You should tell your mother about this, she should put a stop to it. No matter how much she loves him, she wouldn't let him beat her beloved daughter, would she?
If that fails, inform the local authorities. Calling the police would possibly solve it. No matter what you do, don't give up and don't bend. Expose it.
"If I do good, people might accuse me of selfish, ulterior motives, but I will still do it. Because I believe no one is malicious, not in their core, in their raw being.
The best in them is clouded by sorrows and fears, take those away and you'll bring out the brightest of lights in them.
Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
That is why, even if I might get disappointed, I'll always give the best I've got. A single candle can light a thousand others and still burn." - Skezra
In my opinion, the best thing to do would be to talk to your mother about this. If that's uncomfortable at this point for you, then talk to a counselor or teacher, another adult that you trust. Don't let the problem continue though.
You really need to talk to somebody about this he is abusing you it is wrong. Try talking to your mother if that doesn't work try the police what he is doing is illegal and it needs to be sorted now.
First of all we need to know how old you actually are? Chances are your step father is breaking the law big time. He can't love your mother if he is doing that to you.
First thing you need to do is make sure that he knows that what he is doing is wrong and that you are not going to stand for that kind of behaviour. If he lays a hand on you then you most certainly need to tell the police.
Do not let your step father put you in a position where you blame yourself for what he is doing.
I hope that everything turns out ok for you. There are people here who would try and help you.
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