[pink]

Okay so about 3 years ago me and 4 other girls were haaving a sleepover at another girls house. She asked us if any of us had ever fingered ourselves. We all said yeah. I said i only did one time. Okay so keep this story in mind. But anyways my bestfriend stayed the night like a couple weeks ago and ever since then she hasnt called me or anything and has been acting really weird towards me. I told my other friend about it and she was like okay she told me and another girl (the "another girl" was one of the girls at our friends house 3 years ago) that she looked through my phone when i was sleeping and she read messages from me and this boy that i was talking to and we were flirting. We wrent talking about anything bad dthough. ( also me and him dated for 5 years, last week he told my bestfriend he likes her and she told him she can't talk to him because of me, which made me feel stupid because i'm not even talkig to him anymorre, but that made me think that she kinda likes him) But thats what she made it seem to be. She said they were soooo nasty and that i'm a horny little freak and she doesn't even wanna hangout with me anymore because of it. And then the "another girl" goes yeah we always knew bianca was a horny little freak ever since she told us she fingers herself. (can i remind you she said she did tooo? lool and i said i only did once in my whole life, not all the time) and then they both said they werent gonna hangout with me because i'm gross and stuff and i didn't even do anything. Also, let me tell you that i have a cousin who is in the same grade as me and shes in the same school, so we always are together and she hangs out with me and my friends all the time. Well ever since this whole thing, she has been with my bestfriend everyday and hasnt called me at all, so i know my bestfriend prolly told her HER version of the story. She is suppost to be family, your suppost to pick family over friends NO MATTERR WHAT even if i am wronge. and the other day they wrote on my wall on facebook "your hand smelll greeeaeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat" and i didnt' say anything. I feel like i have no friends anymore. Its summer vacation and i dont' do anything because everyone hate me now and i didn't even do anythinggg. Please help me with what to do.....

[David-]

It sounds like you've got yourself into a rough patch here. People your age can be ruthless - as you're currently experiencing.

I suppose my suggestion would be to try to be friends with some of them. Or maybe make some new friends? Either way, what those girls are doing to you is ridiculous and simply just mean. :\

[Luvvleecupcake]

Thats too stupid! My advice is to ignore them. Keep your head up high and dont give a shit because if they were worth your time they wouldnt have done that to you.

[Danimal]

Well that sucks. Unfortunately there's not much you can do except talk to your best friend and cousin and/or make some new friends. In all honesty I think getting new friends is your best option here. Any 'best friend' wouldn't do that. Well any best friend that's worth keeping. What they are all doing is just ridiculous and I'm sure you can find better friends than that.

[undecidedfate]

no matter how much this gets to you, you can't let it show. girls are ruthless, if they see it bothering you, they'll believe what they're saying more and just continue. but also try to show your side. not in a defensive way, but if you stick up for yourself and just wait it out, things will get better. they'll start to see the stupidity of this.
i'd say try to make new friends... but i know that's really difficult. although, it is definitely worth trying, because these don't sound like too great of friends.