[laz0rc0wz]

Hey so one of my best friend (We're not talking to each other anymore since then) made plans last week and bailed out on the very last second. I even saw her face to face and she told me to go hang out with someone else. Gave up all my plans to see her because I thought we were hanging, also that I don't see her much. So instead of having the greatest day of my high school life, I end up getting stuck in my house pmsing about something stupid like this. Has happened more than once and she apprently can't change. I blew up in front of her and dropped F bombs yeah, but ATM she feels like I'm the one who is wrong for yelling at her when she said she was sorry. She says she understands why I'm mad, but I find out she's been talking behind my back ever since. So the blames been shifted towards me in my friends group I'm the bad guy. Funny cuz shes the nicest girl I've ever met but takes her friends for granted and can be totally oblivious to being inconsiderate for others. When we used to hang out I would have loads of fun even just being next to her. Never has she done something that hasn't fit into "her time" in her schedule tho.

Bottem line is, I'm sad and I'm fed up with her, and the fact that she pins everything on me when shes the one who made plans, got me to ditch mine, and then flaked out. I tried getting to talk to her face to face but she keeps ignoring me because she honestly thinks I should be the one that begs and submits into doing a wrong. I can't do it anymore man... How do I do deal with flakes? I normally wouldn't need help with stuff like this but she's been my best friend for a while now. I still think of her cuz we've been thru alot but I know that I should drop it because shes simply unreliable in any way of the word "friend" let alone being a girl friend.

Is this reasonable? Am I just over reacting? Is SHE overracting? Man I don't know what to do anymore. I leave for China in like 4 days she still hasn't put up any effort into talking about this and its been a week. Pretty much given up all my hope for something like this to be fixed.

Help. Thanks.

[Loner]

I can see no logical reason to keeping this"friend"...