[simeonpaca]

Please read the how thing every thing's important
So i'm 16(boy).There is this girl in class i like.She's very smart a bit shy and she's also a bit nerdy.So i'm probably one of the only boys in class that like her all the others hate her but she friends with most of the girls and she doesn't have many guy friends . Last year she was really into me but it didn't work out-we went out 1 time but after that i didn't make any moves and started acting like an idiot and after 2 months she told me she didn't like me.This year she seemed to like me again (i also started 2 like her).6 months ago she was showing clear signs that she liked me but 3 months ago she started to lose interest.
During the 10 days holidays i sent her a message telling her i like her and that i want to talk-to her to which she replied-that she didn't feel the same way and that she just wants to be friends also that she knew i liked her.We agreed to be only friends in school but after calling her 1 time to ask if she wanted to hang out she stopped answering.At a party for the end of school we all got really drunk but after talking with 1 of her friends i found out what to do.So i turned out that she doesn't like me and that she has a crush on a boy 2y older than her(from a year and a half).When we talked we finally agreed to be fnds and she said that she'll pick up the phone from now on.
Now for the question.OK so i asked her when can i call her to see her but she told me she'll be traveling for a month so we agreed that i should call her in the beginning of august(im sure that she really is traveling).So that happened yesterday. Now all off that is really blurry and it's hard to remember what was true and not.I was wondering should i call her to clarify what happened or to excuse myself for anything that i might of said that may have offended her?
P.S I also want to call her just to see if she'll really answer my call

[hallace]

Dude it doesn't matter if she answers or doesn't answer your call. You have no reason to call her anyways.
You aren't thinking very clearly in the first place because you like her, but she doesn't like you. And your mind doesn't really accept it very well. Ive been there and felt it myself. What you have to do is BACK OFF.

Just stop thinking about her, and everything between you and her. THAT is the only way will be able to think clearly about it. And you will see what is really going on.


She probably will never hang out with you. That is stupid and leading on, don't blame her at all now. Hanging out with her is a lose lose. You will be heartbroken because you lose your friendship (you CAN'T be friends with someone you like more than a friend, it doesn't work well) and she will feel bad for leading you on.

So again, just leave her be and move on. Go on and find someone else to like and learn from what has happened here. if there is something learn, cuse sometimes this shit just happens

good luck

[Ephemeral]

Hallace is probably right on this one. It might be better just to back off for a while. I'm not sure a continuing friendship would be beneficial to anyone in this case. But if you still want to continue with the friendship I wouldn't call her to clarify. I don't think that would accomplish anything worthwhile.

[Luvvleecupcake]

Yeah i agree, just leave her be. You dont wanna sound annoying or anything like that :|