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Old 02-07-11, 04:18 PM   #1
 
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When I first started at McD's, everybody used to talk to me but Kyra. At first, I thought it was bc I was new until I asked her a general question and she said we weren’t friends. I know she was giving off cues that she didn’t like me, but I never got them. I begged her and gave her $$$ for a whole hour on my day off. She became increasingly annoyed. I was frustrated and purposely embarrassed the store by yelling, “If Kyra won’t play with me, I want my mommy!” A shift manager’s 9 y/o son asked if she was sure I worked there. The next day, the general manager said she can’t have me behave like that. If she didn’t know the two of us, she’s think I’m in love with her, to which I replied, “I’m not a dyke.” My coworker said she didn’t mean me.

"Do NOT call my friend Kyra a dyke!” I shouted. Then I demanded to be transferred, which my boss agreed to. Somehow, it didn’t end up happening. My manager also called corporate on me just for that, but they didn't end up doing anything.

A coupla days later at work, I sassed a manager. I told her when she brushed against me, it burns and when she talks, my ears hurt. The next day, I got written up and flicked out my boss for doing that. Soon, I began to verbally abuse others regularly, but I was really nice to Kyra. However, I stared at her on my days off just wanting her to talk to me. It turned out later that she had 2 people add me on facebook bc she was afraid I will do something, which I don’t plan on. Jenny said Kyra initially hated her for months until she (Jenny) accidentally made coffee wrong and burned a lot of people. Kyra thought it was funny and they became friends. I tried the same tactic and purposely made coffee wrong, burned myself, and Kyra just got disgusted. Every snub Kyra made to me (I.e. not letting me sit at her table) I reported it to the boss. In the case w/ the tables, my boss said to find a different table. I also damaged Andrea's coat bc Kyra liked her. And here's the part I HATE: Once, I got 5-6 orders wrong during my 8 hour shift bc I kept thinking of Kyra. And they blamed me!

No one would allow me to talk about Kyra hurting me at work. Well, it's not like I see my therapist every day, so I treat work like one. Since I couldn't, I ended up screaming at my boss in front of customers for a rage outlet. I got suspended 2 weeks. I returned to work to ostracism and on-call hours. I quit a few weeks after. All bc Kyra hurt me.
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Old 02-07-11, 04:24 PM   #2
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huh...









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huh...
idk WHY did she do this? And people allowed her to do this to me. It's not really fair
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Old 02-07-11, 04:30 PM   #4
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Well I can't really understand your post.. but you worked there yes? for just a little bit so why not try and forget about it and move on? it's not like you were friends wit her so she hurt you, sucks yes but don't dwell on it.









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Old 02-07-11, 04:32 PM   #5
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I don't really see where she did anything wrong? So she was a bit mean to you, you can't please everyone |:

Move on and forget about her!








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Old 02-07-11, 04:33 PM   #6
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Well I can't really understand your post.. but you worked there yes? for just a little bit so why not try and forget about it and move on? it's not like you were friends wit her so she hurt you, sucks yes but don't dwell on it.
This.

Your post is a bit difficult even for a student in AP English.

OT: Don't dwell on it, there are plenty of people out there to talk to.
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Old 02-07-11, 04:39 PM   #7
 
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Well I can't really understand your post.. but you worked there yes? for just a little bit so why not try and forget about it and move on? it's not like you were friends wit her so she hurt you, sucks yes but don't dwell on it.
She hurt me by NOT being my friend
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Old 02-07-11, 04:40 PM   #8
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Well not everyone is going to like YOU. and want to be YOUR friend. You just have to accept that and move on and find people who you do get along with and who do like you.









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Old 02-07-11, 04:43 PM   #9
 
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It's just that c of my incident w/ her, everyone else don't like me. That also sucks bad.
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Old 02-07-11, 04:51 PM   #10
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Well, it's work. not a place to make friends.









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