[Didddy]

I've fancied a guy for over 2 years now.. and I can't ever seem to get over him!

Me and him have been through so much in the past, and some certain things that have happened has caused me and him to not be as fond of each other anymore, so I'm trying to stop fancy him, but I don't know how I'm meant to do it when I see him everyday in school!

Has anybody got any ideas?

Thanks xx

[chacha]

ah i know exactly how you feel and it SUCKS
Thing I find works quite well is qriting down all his bad points, maybe the way he talks about people orrr something he's done in the past that you don't agree with. might seem harsh but he doesnt have to see it and i assure you you will find quite a few negatives
i also find going out with my girlfriends a really great distraction, maybe go and watch a really empowering movie like Bridget jones? not a good example but you get what i mean, independent, strong minded women!
good luck xx

[DeepDistress]

Sounds like you need to work through the things of your past. If you can't stop fancying him and thinking of him then you obviously still care for him. Try and work through the issues, get your best friend back and then see what happens. If he's still in your mind, there's a reason for it.

[16teengirl]

I don't think anything will take your mind off him if you seemed to be stuck in love with him. If you tried and tried so hard and it's not working then tell him you rather not be friends.

[hallace]

You need to cleanse yourself of him.

Slap yourself (not really) whenever you think of him.
Go out with friends to forget em, and have fun.
look for someone else, if you get a small crush on someone else you will forget him.

STOP seeing him. If you hang out, stop hanging out. If you have him in a class, DON'T even look at him.

Its not really harsh, but you need to be able to think clearly without thinking of him.



I was in this situation exactly. Yea it sucks but you have to just stop thinking about him completely.

[Didddy]

Thanks everyone, I really appreciate those comments.

I spoke to some of my friends at school about it, and they said that I should try to be friendly with him until I finish school, which is just under a year, and then completely forget about him. Is that a good idea?

I find it really difficult to not think about him, because I go to bed thinking about him, meaning he's in my dreams, and I wake up thinking about him. I see him very often in school too, and some of his best friends are also my close friends, so this is going to be a rather difficult process :(

[hallace]

I liked my crush for 3 years.
I still sometimes find myself dreaming about her. But when i wake up i just get pissed at myself. So i don't dream about her nearly as often.

If you can help it don't interact with him at all. Its just better that way. Try not to think about him on any level as much as you can help it. Its a slow process, but only gets slower if you don't try very hard.

[Didddy]

I'll just have to try and think about other things before I go to sleep then - I hope it's easier said than done!

Not interacting with him will be quite easy, because if I don't talk to him, he doesn't talk to me, and he spends most of his time insulting me over little things. I think he's a pretty selfish person, but somehow I still like him.

I'll try to do that than hallace, as you've been through this situation yourself, thank you!

[Gray]

hmm , people say that in order to get over a love... you need to fall in love with someone else :-)

just words i know... the solution is one.. Ignore him ...

-My Opinion

[Didddy]

Oh yeah, I also forgot to mention that this guy tends to rub things in my face. He's very much into another girl right now (not in a romantic way) and he completely ignores the fact I I exist must of the time, he only recognizes I exist when we're in private.