[Rose Petals]

Originally Posted by chill

ohey, i just got off the phone wiht my girlfriend.. and wow :\ i am surprised right now.. and this was the first place that came to mind to ask what to do, cuz im honestly lost..

alright, so i called my gf to swim today at my gym.. and her dad and little bro tagged along so her bro goes in to the changeroom to change but her dad and her were still in the car, talking. so when she came in the pool she had shades on, i knew something was up cuz she never does, i took off her shades and her eyes were red, i knew she was crying.. and i asked her what was wrong and she started crying like lets not talk about it, so i just hugged her, and her dad looked, and hes like ok! stop? cuz he had lectured me and her spereatly in the past about not hugging/kissing in public cuz idk, hes messed. but anyway we 'swum' sortof.. and then later on tongiht i asked her what was wrong, and so she told me like the stuff he said and GOD that guy is MESSED man :\ hes like once you and that guy (me) break up you're just gonna be crying alll day and stuff and how shes not a good person anymoree and what not and that its been 5 months me and her are goin out so why dont you have sex so he can leave you WTF. and then hes like in 3 months when he leaves you we'll see what happens and so i heard this and im like k. WTF. but thats not where it ends, her dad makes her do co-op 6am to 4pm everyday and then work 6pm to about 10 sometimes 9 30, she has some rainy days off like today cuz its an icecream place, so we barely see each other alone now cuz her dad always comes swimming and thats the only thing we can do or allowed to do.. and she doesnt even want to do this co-op and job but he still makes her, and it doesnt make sense cuz the co-op is an open course while we're academic students, so the course doesnt help her, but hes always mean about it and says 'welcome to reality' and what not.. anyway the coop is pretty hard, she has to catch fish, swim everywhere n stuff and other hard stuff, so she was tired and looking away in the window, so he pulls over the car. and says, i honestly wanna smack your face right now.. and that brought up the hitting part, she told me that he used to hit her, he hasnt done it in about a year ish but he still does to her little bro when hes mad.. and she didnt call the cops back then cuz she was scared.. now shes 17 so im guessing she wont care calling them.. and then idk, if any of you read but i had this post way back, about her hurting herself because she lost her grandparents.. and yeah her dad.. he knew about this cuz she found the stuff in his drawer, and she was crying that maybe he wants her liek that.. and he says shes a really bad person and what not :| this guy, is a really angry person.. he has pills and stuff for his anger and stuff but she says he never takes them.. i mean i didnt even know about all this until today and now it bothers me and makes me sad that i cant do anythign about it.. i need advice? and seriously i didnt even know what to say to make her feel better.. i was having the most confused/wierd/surprised experience.. but i turned the whole thing around into about us, and like said sweet things, make her laugh, said goodnight and all that, but i know she probably wont sleep right away.. and i obviously just put the thing away, not handle itt.. now i cant even look at the guy the same way anymore cuz it was soo sad :\ she was crying and im so shaked right now .. i wish you guys could experience this its SAD, and i wanna do something.. please help.

You should both contact the police and notify them about this. What he is doing to her is not right and needs to be dealt with. If you need any more help PM me
Hope things work out. I am so sorry for her :(

[Kryptonite]

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