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Ok, my problem basically is that this was my last summer of highschool and it has been nothin but. Hell. My aunt who is a major b**** was here for the entire two months and her kids are the worst kids I know.. And he caused Many fights in our house while blaming me and my sister.. And please font ask me why my dad or anyone didn't say anything.. It's stupid. Anyway my problem is.. There's literally 5 days left of what I called my last summer and all the memories which I will take from this.. Is my dad angry and trying to control himself.. Me having to hold my strong dad while he tries to hit my sister.. Me and my sister constantly trying o apologize to my aunt for something we were just blamed for..just everything else that has happened in these 2 months.. And I didn't go anywhere, I didn't do anything..my friends all went to newyork watched phantom of opera, they went to calypso they went places, did things.. And never have I ever admit this but I'm jelous. Of the people who have it so good.. I feel like crying when I see what have I done this summer.. And I couldn't talk to anyone wit this.. Cuz anyone who I'd go to.. I'd het the answer.. Just keep quiet, it's over now. I KNOW IT'S OVER! and it's bugging me on how bad it was :( some words of comfort please.
Oh hun, that sounds like a horrible summer. I'm sorry that it wasn't what you hoped it would be, but sometimes those things happen in life and we have to be thankful that it wasn't even worse. A lot of things can happen in a day alone nevermind a whole summer. I mean hey, you have winter to look forward to, and there will always be another summer. And the older you get the more say you will have in what you want to do and how you want to spend your life. There are some people in the world that don't even have food to eat this summer, or water, or shelter, and if you have all of those 3 then you are already luckier than 70% of the whole world! Imagine that, you are a very lucky lady. Some people in the world wish that they even had family to argue with. Don't worry about what happened, you still have a few days left to destress, have nice lazy days and bubble baths and listen to nice music, you deserve it. Be strong and think of the good things!
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I'm afraid there's not much you can do here. What happened has alredy happened. We all have our bad summers, just as we have our bad years or bad days. But, there are also the good times. What you need to do here is to move on from what happened, and look forward to the days that are coming.
Nothing we can tell you here will make you forget, you'll always remember it untill it becomes blurry in the future. What you need now is time, as in time you'll become less upset and eventually move on. Don't dwell on it, try to find new things to keep you busy now and try to think of the things you're looking forward to next, instead of constantly thinking of the past.
"If I do good, people might accuse me of selfish, ulterior motives, but I will still do it. Because I believe no one is malicious, not in their core, in their raw being.
The best in them is clouded by sorrows and fears, take those away and you'll bring out the brightest of lights in them.
Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
That is why, even if I might get disappointed, I'll always give the best I've got. A single candle can light a thousand others and still burn." - Skezra
yeah, not a very good summer :( But that's the past now, just a memory, you don't have to live it any longer.
The easy thing to do now is to waste your last 5 days by just sitting around, thinking of your summer, sighing about how crap it was... You still have 5 days left, you can still have fun in 5 days! Are your mates back from new york? If yes, meet up with them! yes, they'll probaly say how much fun they had and stuff, but even if you dont wanna hear about it pretend you do. By the next day they'll probaly have nothing left to say and you can do fun things togetherrrr!!
I know how horrible it feels like...I don't go out much too...bcz my dad and bro r always busy..so they have no time to take us out and stuff...and I can't do anything about it..so I just accepted the fact that I won't go out much this summer...just a couple of times..I just kept myself busy so I won't feel bad about it!! and this summer wasn't that good at all...it just passed so quick and what have I done in it...nothin...but of course I won't let this happen again next summer...bcz this summer has passed..so it doesn't matter anymore..next summer does..make sure that u'd have a better one next year...and maybe tell ur parents that u want 2 have a good summer like all ur friends does...maybe they'll understand!
Aww. I 'm sorry you didn't have a good summer. I didn't either. But just because this was your last summer of high school doesn't mean you have to hate all of it. Hang out with your friends. If you tell them I am sure they'll understand. Then all of you can enjoy these last 5 days. Do things out of the norm. Make them memorable. And remember there are people in worse off situations then you. My parents are divorcing, my five year old sister likes to wrestle, my mom is sending me to a therapist, and I tried to commit suicide twice. See, ur summer seems like a piece of cake compared to mine. And I am fine. In fact, Im going to the mall tomorrow with a friend. And my sister. Stay positive and everything will work out fine.
Well my fiends are back now an I asked them if try would wanna go to calypso.. And I font have a car but one of them do.. And she was good to drive us there until today she like we've already been thereseveral times so it won't be fun.. I feel sodissapointed now :( It was like last 5 days and hope was getting up and now just crush down again :( wth
I'm sorry you didn't have a good summer, the best thing to do now is look forward to next summer though, right? Everyone has bad days, weeks and summers at least once, what's done is done and I'd just put it behind you now. Enjoy the 5 days of this summer left while you can
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Summer :(
Some people in the world wish that they even had family to argue with. Don't worry about what happened, you still have a few days left to destress, have nice lazy days and bubble baths and listen to nice music, you deserve it. Be strong and think of the good things! 
Stay positive and everything will work out fine.
