[DeepDistress]

Nothing is going to solve you feeling selfish, your husband wants children of his own, you can't supply them. = always going to feel selfish.

[Caer]

Not necessarily.
But thanks for the help kate.
Always appreciated.

[RileyR]

Originally Posted by DeepDistress

Nothing is going to solve you feeling selfish, your husband wants children of his own, you can't supply them. = always going to feel selfish.

Doesn't that make her husband kinda selfish as well because he isn't really compromising either?

[MontrealRepresent]

I'm just a bit confused here. Why would you be asking for advice when you're completely sure you want to get it? I don't see the point to be honest.

[DeepDistress]

Originally Posted by RileyR

Doesn't that make her husband kinda selfish as well because he isn't really compromising either?

He is compromising by loving her and being with her still and not having children, it's not like he can just force her to get pregnant o.O he doesn't have a choice in it.

[Caer]

Originally Posted by MontrealRepresent

I'm just a bit confused here. Why would you be asking for advice when you're completely sure you want to get it? I don't see the point to be honest.

I was more so trying to find advice on how to not feel like I'm being selfish about making a personal choice that in my opinion, is in my best interest. I know that I would resent my husband if he were to tell me that I have to have a child and I have no choice in the matter, so I can only imagine he would feel the same way whether he's too nice to admit it or not. I feel bad taking that option away from him,but I know that sucking it up and doing it would ruin our relationship so it's a catch 22 for me.