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It's my last day in our school on thursday and this ridiculously gorgeous angel moves to our school who now has p.e. and world history with me.
I wanna get to know her before i leave. I'm planning to ask her to eat with me tomorrow during lunch since i'm leaving the day after that. I have no problem with being turned down but i always end up with awkward silence. How do i recover?
lol after u get turned down say something like "oh ok well i gotta go to class, nice talking to you" and then leave
but i'm gonna ask her DURING class. Our schedule is p.e. then lunch then world history. We can spend like 3 hours or so together assuming that she'll say yes (so not gonna happen :[ )
Last edited by iloveclaudia; 01-11-11 at 09:03 PM..
Well, she probably won't reject you directly or rudely. She'll probably give an obvious excuse and be nice, hoping not to hurt or offend. A simple "That's fine" is okay.
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The best in them is clouded by sorrows and fears, take those away and you'll bring out the brightest of lights in them.
Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
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She will say one of the following:
1. I'm busy (really means she doesn't like u) ... so u say oh ok well maybe sum other time (and IF she really likes you she will set the time).
2. I am dating *insert name ... you say oh I didnt know
3. Blah, blah, blah I don't like u like that ... you say oh that's ok, no worries
So basically there doesn't have to be an awward silence after she responds, you just roll with it regardless of how she answers (and if she says yes, you say nice/sweet/excellent/score/etc lol
I don't understand why you would want to get to know a girl you have never spoken to before... But I guess, just say "Alright, that's fine. See you later"
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
this is how LAUGH and SMILE if you get turned down and think at least I tried and found out instead of doing nothing and thinking what could have happend. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal don't over think it. and last but not least you have to ask her before you actually get turned down and even then she might not turn you down. Have confidence in yourself.
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