[Ta6y]

I'm new to the whole bi thing. I was talking to a friend of mine for a half hour last night about a certain girl that i like. I know shes bi too. that im glad i know lol.
I really would like to get to know her better but stay out of the friend zone at the same time. We have only known eachother for a couple months now but still, she's beautiful and crazy [IMG]http://images2.********.com/boards/images/smilies/happy.gif[/IMG]

Well were always sitting on eachothers laps and teasing one another. Today she made me dance in the rain with her [IMG]http://images2.********.com/boards/images/smilies/happy.gif[/IMG] i told her she was crazy at first but she told me to go out with her so i did... sorry babbling..
so the point is... theres another girl
the girl i like likes the other girl. they like eachother and always flirt and all but the other one has a gf.
sorry if this is confusing.

My friend told me to have a few drinks with the one i like and kiss her and see what happens...
What do you guys think i should do? back off, drink, something else?

[Winter Star Snowy]

oh no. i totally disagree with her. don't do it. it will harm you

[LaurenTheNerd]

Don't do it. Not a very sensible idea.

[Kryptonite]

Seems pretty stupid. "OH YES, LETS GET DRUNK SO I CAN HAVE SOME CONFIDENCE. THAT WILL BE DELIGHTFUL IN THE MORNING."

Don't be a Katy Perry.

[MontrealRepresent]

Wait so I didn't really understand? What's your friend telling you to do?

[Vampenstine]

Not a very good idea. Don't do it.
You'll only end up doing something you regret.

[Elle]

Agreed with others. Trying to get to her when you're both drunk is not only wrong, but it's just not the answer. It'll only cause problems!

[ThatPsycho]

I think you need to get to know this girl before you try anything with her - you even said that you want to. You can still get to know someone and have a chance of being in a relationship with her. In fact, it would be better if you got to know her very well - you might think you like her because she's beautiful and crazy, but you can't fully know that unless you know her very well.

If you flirt with her, there could be a chance that she feels the same way as you. However, if she flirts with another girl as well, she could either like flirting and messing around, could just be being silly, could be confused about who she likes or maybe just using you for a bit of flirting or something. But you can't really be sure. And she shouldn't be flirting with a girl who already has a girlfriend, either.

But your friend's advice is wrong, like other people have been saying. You could end up doing something you regret which could cause problems and end up in danger or something. And it's really not sensible. If you can't get to kiss her when you're both sober, you shouldn't kiss her at all. It's wrong to try to kiss her when she's drunk. You probably don't know her well enough, and kissing her randomly would probably just make your emotions go all over the place. which isn't what you need. Anyway, it wouldn't be the same if you were drunk because you wouldn't be fully aware of what you were doing and you'd just forget it the morning after.

What you should do is get to know her better; then, when you are ready, tell her how you feel about her and see if she feels the same way.. Good luck!

[Gray]

Its not up to us , its up to you Personally i wouldnt do it , but yeah a drink helps , but no .. getting drunk would be a bad idea good luck