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I have this uber tough cousin, who's one of the 3 or 4 toughest girls in my school. The other day she was fighting with her little brother. I tried to pull her off of him, and she turned on me. (I think she must assume I'm a wimp cuz I'm kinda nerdy & have never been in a fight). She got in my face and was like, "come on... let's fight." She had me backed up against a bed, and then totally made me look like a punk by pushing me down onto the bed and standing over me saying "come on, get up, are you afraid to fight a girl." I got up and she pushed me down again and kept egging me on "come on, get up, let's fight." I got up a 2nd time, she finally slapped me in the face and left me alone.
a) Why would a girl want to fight a boy? Do girls get a sense of empowerment from beating up a boy? Do they get major toughness "cred" if they can beat up a boy?
b) Do you think people think I'm a wimp for getting beat up by a girl?
c) Do you think my cuz coulda beat me up if I tried to fight back?
Omg. Girls just think their the "shit" - don't worry about it. She know that you're not gonna hit her back, that's why she hitted you. Stand up for yourself next time! Geek power!!
a) Why would a girl want to fight a boy? Do girls get a sense of empowerment from beating up a boy? Do they get major toughness "cred" if they can beat up a boy?
A girl would beat you up for the same reasons a guy would.
Girls fight for the same reasons, they are pissed.
Now, your getting beaten up leads others to the conclusion that you are in fact, weak. This leads them to interact with you more physically, which makes you in turn, actually weak.
Stop worrying about why, and do something. Tell someone, preferably. don't go beating the shit out of angry women, because that is FAR worse than just telling someone. Then you'll become everything you hate
Brotip: Don't ever hit a girl. Ever. Even if they knee you in the crotch. Just tell them to fuck off. Like, if you go to guidance, they will think you are a wimp. Just tell them to lay off, and if they don't, tell.
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