[Peri]

Hi i am new to the forum .

Currently I am in university in first semester. In beginning, I was busy with taking admission in university and i was very excited, happy and ready for a new life to start but when i got admission, i fell in love, actually i confessed my love and then a new life started for me.

Since that day everything changed, my life is upside down. I have become careless, irresponsible but this is not what worries me, what worries me is that, its hard to concentrate on studies.

Its impossible not to think of her... there's not a single day which passes by without talking to her. I want to see her everyday which is not possible but i visit her every weekend or she visits me. I wish i could be with her forever.
I need advice to help me concentrate on my studies as well as relax my heart when i can't see her.

[LaurenTheNerd]

There's no magic method I can think of I'm afraid. I think you need to knuckle down and think about what's important; are you studies important? If so, don't neglect them. Force yourself to work because you'll find you might regret it if you don't.

[solitude]

Originally Posted by LaurenTheNerd

There's no magic method I can think of I'm afraid. I think you need to knuckle down and think about what's important; are you studies important? If so, don't neglect them. Force yourself to work because you'll find you might regret it if you don't.

this


sacrifices are a part of growing up and needs must

[Walt]

welcome to the forum!!!!!!

[TheEx.Prophet]

Hello there welcome to the forum,


I would suggest trying to communicate with via a form technology that would allow some sort of visual contact like Skype? You can arrange a Skype webcam date every night; make it as romantic as possible. Get dressed up, play online games together, microphone one another etc. At least this would fill some of the void for lost intimacy. Perhaps after a few of these Webcam dates then you’ll stop longing for her as much and you’ll be able to focus more on your studies.


It’s also good to remind yourself of why you’re at UNI this might sound silly but personally for me when I lose focus and concentration of my set goal, I take a sticky note (google it if you’re not familiar with it) write what I’m aiming for or what my goal is, stick it onto my bedroom wall and my binder/folder and every time I see it I’m reminded of what I’m trying to accomplish; which motivates me in some sort.

[Lilly]

Just try and concentrate on your studies, thats all i can think of

[Peri]

Originally Posted by TheEx.Prophet

Hello there welcome to the forum,


I would suggest trying to communicate with via a form technology that would allow some sort of visual contact like Skype? You can arrange a Skype webcam date every night; make it as romantic as possible. Get dressed up, play online games together, microphone one another etc. At least this would fill some of the void for lost intimacy. Perhaps after a few of these Webcam dates then you’ll stop longing for her as much and you’ll be able to focus more on your studies.


It’s also good to remind yourself of why you’re at UNI this might sound silly but personally for me when I lose focus and concentration of my set goal, I take a sticky note (google it if you’re not familiar with it) write what I’m aiming for or what my goal is, stick it onto my bedroom wall and my binder/folder and every time I see it I’m reminded of what I’m trying to accomplish; which motivates me in some sort.

Thanks i really like your comment... it really helped
i found my motive again from which i got lost while keeping my love alive without loosing control

[Lilly]

How are you doing? Have you asked her out yet?

[Lilly]

Ignore my last post... what i meant to say is how are your studies going?