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Old 11-12-11, 07:12 AM   #1
 
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Default Was I wrong in not wanting to spend the night with her?

So me and a friend was hanging out with this girl I sorta like, and it was getting late but one of my friends didn't want the party to end and they suggested we go out and party some more AT HER BOYFRIENDS HOUSE and even suggested sleeping over.

She was cool with it but me and another friend was hesitant on the idea, mainly because we just were uncomfortable with the idea, plus I personally didn't really like her boyfriend for the way I heard he treats her and the constant fighting they do.

As she was driving us while we made our decision she dropped me off at my house to pick up some stuff should I go, but mid way I decided to just decline and when I did this she just sped off. I had assumed they would just go without me, but it turns out she just dropped off my other friend off and just went home and according to him she seemed a bit upset at my choice.

So long story short, was I wrong in declining or should I have just sucked it up if it meant making the girl I liked happy?
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Old 11-12-11, 07:25 AM   #2
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I think you might want to like really think if you do want this girl...

You shouldn't have needed to stay over night and I don't blame you, you didn't even know them.
And she's acting really immature.









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Old 11-12-11, 07:28 AM   #3
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Default Re: Was I wrong in not wanting to spend the night with her?

What's the point in sleeping over at her house if you didn't want to. So she was upset, she'll get over it. Why did you get your stuff if you didn't want to though? You should of just said that you didn't want to when she suggested it.
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Old 11-12-11, 07:31 AM   #4
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Default Re: Was I wrong in not wanting to spend the night with her?

What a big baby! You can't always get what you want, and if you had a fun night, who cares?!

I would feel a bit awkward if I had to be a third wheel and sleep over, that is a recipe for disaster.








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Old 11-12-11, 10:47 AM   #5
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You did the right thing. Worry not.










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Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
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Old 13-12-11, 10:26 AM   #6
 
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You did the right thing. Tell her you like her.
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Old 14-12-11, 01:32 PM   #7
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It's okay that you declined to sleep at her house with your friends.
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