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Why is my twin sister acting this way and what should I do?
Hello. Â This is kind of long, so thanks for your help with my situation. Â
My twin sister Jesse and I have been very close since the day we were born. Our parent's travel a lot, so we considered ourselves each other's best friend. But recently, Jesse has done something's that we're kind of odd. We are both 14.
Over thanksgiving, me and her were swimming in the resort we were staying in's pool. Jesse had gotten out and I followed.
Now the swim trunks I was wearing were new and kind of big. After I was out, I noticed Jesse was staring at my midsection.
"What?" I asked. I than looked down and realized that tge top half of my gentiles was exposed. I quickly adjusted my shorts and sort of blushed.
"Oh sorry Cody! I didn't mean to stare!" she apologized.
"Just forget about it and let's spare ourselves the embarrassment okay?"
And I did until last weekend. Me and Jesse had started arguing about an answer to an Algebra problem (we do our homework together) and she started to tickle me (yes, I'll admit, I am ticklish. ). And so I started to tickle her back, and it developed into kind of a laughing fight. But at one point, Jesse kind of touched her hand to my crotch. And again. And again. I didn't tell her about the contact (THAT would be an awkward conversation!).
Anyway, I was wondering if anybody has been or is in a similar situation, and what I should tell Jesse if something like this happens again. I think I want it to stop, but I still would like to maintain our friendship. Any ideas? Thanks.
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I think so far it's just honestly curiosity with her, It could be the first junk of a guy she's ever seen hah. And not noticed she was looking that long. And Idk if her hand actually meant to touch you there. Just be careful to make sure you have a good SIBLING friendship first. You cannot treat her just like a best friend because she's your sister. Don't do too much contact etc.
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Re: Why is my twin sister acting this way and what should I do?
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Originally Posted by DeepDistress
I think so far it's just honestly curiosity with her, It could be the first junk of a guy she's ever seen hah. And not noticed she was looking that long. And Idk if her hand actually meant to touch you there. Just be careful to make sure you have a good SIBLING friendship first. You cannot treat her just like a best friend because she's your sister. Don't do too much contact etc.
Re: Why is my twin sister acting this way and what should I do?
inb4
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Originally Posted by Leviticus 18
Leviticus 18:6-18
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
6 ‘None of you shall approach any blood relative [a]of his to uncover nakedness; I am the LORD. 7 You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father, that is, the nakedness of your mother. She is your mother; you are not to uncover her nakedness. 8 You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father’s wife; it is your father’s nakedness. 9 The nakedness of your sister, either your father’s daughter or your mother’s daughter, whether born at home or born outside, their nakedness you shall not uncover. 10 The nakedness of your son’s daughter or your daughter’s daughter, their nakedness you shall not uncover; for [b]their nakedness is yours. 11 The nakedness of your father’s wife’s daughter, [c]born to your father, she is your sister, you shall not uncover her nakedness. 12 You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father’s sister; she is your father’s blood relative. 13 You shall not uncover the nakedness of your mother’s sister, for she is your mother’s blood relative. 14 You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father’s brother; you shall not approach his wife, she is your aunt. 15 You shall not uncover the nakedness of your daughter-in-law; she is your son’s wife, you shall not uncover her nakedness. 16 You shall not uncover the nakedness of your brother’s wife; it is your brother’s nakedness. 17 You shall not uncover the nakedness of a woman and of her daughter, nor shall you take her son’s daughter or her daughter’s daughter, to uncover her nakedness; they are blood relatives. It is [d]lewdness. 18 You shall not [e]marry a woman in addition to [f]her sister [g]as a rival while she is alive, to uncover her nakedness.
Tell her to keep her hands off of your penis, and definitely do not engage in sexual activities. This is not to be tolerated.
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Re: Why is my twin sister acting this way and what should I do?
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Originally Posted by ChristMyRedeemer
inb4
Tell her to keep her hands off of your penis, and definitely do not engage in sexual activities. This is not to be tolerated.
Firstly, I don't have the intention of having sex with her! Secondly, don't quote the bible. No one in my family is religious. Mainly, we our underage and incest regardless is against the law for some reason. I don't break laws.
Re: Why is my twin sister acting this way and what should I do?
I'm going to venture a guess that it was curiosity that took hold in your sister when she noticed your gentilia was partially exposed. You're still a male and she's probably never seen that before. Of course when you noticed it; you both recognized the error and moved on from it quickly.
The hand thing could simply be accidental; but it if occurs again or persists, I think it would be appropriate to talk to her about it.
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Re: Why is my twin sister acting this way and what should I do?
I agree with all the above. And no need to be snappy, mate. Dustin is just throwing his input in.
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Why is my twin sister acting this way and what should I do?
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