[DeepDistress]

Darling you pretty much have to listen to your friends =/ Love can be very very very blinding.. trust me i know but you have to listen to the ones who care about you and can see things more clearly.

[iloveclaudia]

Originally Posted by DeepDistress

Darling you pretty much have to listen to your friends =/ Love can be very very very blinding.. trust me i know but you have to listen to the ones who care about you and can see things more clearly.

Thank you, really. You're right. I guess i just didn't want to get hurt. She broke my heart 4 times already. Always lying, always toying with me. She said she was sorry and that she'd wait for me this time. All the things she told me the other night, were those lies? She told me so many things. You just can't imagine how much my heart is aching right now. I guess the whole old fashioned thing is just something the girls of today doesn't care for anymore. What should i do? Should i just cancel the trip and fade away? Like she faded away from me after i left?

[DeepDistress]

Honestly, you do have to let her go. she's using you. She's just having you there when she wants you to be. I understand how badly you hurt, i really really do ive been there many times myself but you just have to trust in yourself, your a very good decent guy by the sounds of it with good morals and looks on dating, don't sacrifice that or waste it. She's a dud of a chick hah, let it go. Yes it's hard to find girls who will appreciate you for you, all the old fashioned stuff but they are out there, especially when you're at an older age. DON'T change who you are, even if it's tough sometimes the relationship you will have and life you will have will be far more worth it. She's not the right chick for you, she uses you, toys, cheats, your friends are noticing her changes. Just.. let her go. It's going to be very hard but you will get over her, and be happier. There's no sense in waiting for someone who's like that, who won't make you happy and you cannot truly trust. You have to open your eyes and see what she's truly like, not what she was or what you want her to be. it's always scary to let go of that person who you feel intimate with then be alone, but you have to get over that so you can be happier in the end and not be used.

PM/VM/IM me or something if you ever need to talk more or if you break it off and want someone there to talk to after

[LaurenTheNerd]

^Kate pretty much hit the nail on the head.

I admire you for not wanting sex so early, hats off to you Sir.
I agree that you should let her go though, she's hurting you and you don't deserve that when all you want is to make her happy.
So you've set a date to start dating? I wouldn't be surprised of she's using that as an excuse to mess around with other lads first, she just seems like that kind of girl. I'd wait for someone who shares the same values as you or at least won't hurt you this much. I wish you luck but I think you need to forget about her.

[Triteia]

Don't give up on the old-fashioned way of love. A lot of girls want that kind of treatment. True, there are a lot of girls who want to be treated the way people on TV are treated, or they're simply not trustworthy because they have this idea that relationships are open :/. But that doesn't mean they all are like that! I for one, am not .

[MissBlood]

I don't have any advice but I wanted to say, you're a really good guy if you think that

[modnar72198]

I don't think so