[iloveclaudia]

So i just found out that most of the teen relationships our generation is kept alive by sex. Now here's the problem, i'm more of the old fashioned guy who just want's love and for the girl to be happy. I'm not after the sex. I'm about to have my first serious relationship with a girl who i really care about. She gave away her first kiss to some asshole who doesn't even care about her. If she gave away her first kiss that easily, i don't even wanna think about her you know what (virginity). I wan't our relationship to be fun without the sex. I mean, maybe ocasionally but i don't want to be a weekly thing. She's very, how should i say this, adventurous. Please help me. I really need some advice. Happy Holidays Everyone!

[Poontang]

Oh yes, everything wrong with it. I think you know the answer everybody is going to give...

[Triteia]

There's nothing wrong with not centering your relationship around sex! It's perfectly acceptable (and desirable, in my opinion) to want to be more romantic and loving rather than lustful. If you don't want to have a sexual relationship, then that's perfectly fine! It's completely up to you!

If you're afraid that she'd cheat on you or want to tempt you/force you into having sex, then she probably isn't the best girlfriend. You're a very loyal person, I can tell—if she isn't, the two of you won't be the best match.

[warewolf95]

Im in your boat too. There needs to be substance in a relationship for it to mean anything - it cant rely on sex.

[Pandemonium]

The one thing that is utterly wrong for certain is that your 'want' isn't spelled correctly anywhere in this thread. :p

[DeepDistress]

Just stuck to your guns, don't give in even if shes all trying to seduce you, if shes trying to push you into it she's not the chick to loose it to. You're one of the rare mature guys who don't care about sex as much, like you said, old fashioned. that's rare and amazing so don't be anything else You're young just enjoy life and fun relationships, they can be serious but don't make them too serious with sex, your life will get serious enough and stressful enough in other ways over the next few years.

[Nobartholem]

Wait till your ready, there is totally no problem with wanting a relationship not dependant upon sex. Infact, kudos to you.

[blueorchids7]

No it Is perfectly normal for youths such as me and you.sex Is neither on me or my bf mind because we have so many things in common we dont even think of it. Just show her your yourself which is not a sex guy. Be proud.

[iloveclaudia]

I'm sorry for any typos. It's just that i'm only using a phone and i'm freaking out. Her bestfriend didn't want me to get hurt so she warned me. And she wasn't the only one who warned me. Everyone was saying that she's "changing". I just don't want to listen to any of them. I trust her. We've been seperated for nearly 7 months now. She said she'll wait for me. I trust her and every decission she makes. But just this morning i saw her upload pictures of her and a guy on facebook at what looked like a christmas party. I couldn't help it. I just broke down and started crying. I can't think straight. I just trust her too much to believe anything i hear or see bad about her. Please help me. All my friends told me to forget about her but i just don't want to. I feel like i'm being tested or sumthin. Help :c i'm going to visit her on the 29th. She said that's the day we're going to start a relationship.

[Antheia]

Yeah apologies don't work for typos with them they wont help now sorry