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Gonna lose my 2 best friends anyhow, how to handle this?
Hey guys, I joined this site because I really need some help right now.
Ok, so I have 2 good friends at school. A lot has happened and lets say I got into a lot of fights with people and they are pretty much the only friends I have left at school. One of them is a guy, call him Joey, and the other is a girl, call her Ashley.
Okay, so I am really close with Ashley, we are BEST friends but nothing more (I am guy btw). Me and Joey are good friends too, and me and him talk about Ashley sometimes but I never really say anything bad. Ashley and Joey are friends too.
Anyways, last night I got a bunch of texts from Ashley like: "FUCK YOU I HATE YOU I AM NEVER TALKING TO YOU AGAIN, NOW I KNOW WHY EVERYONE HATES YOU" ETC ETC.. I replied with "wtfff are you talking about" but she ignored it.
I have class with both of them, and we all sit together but she was ignoring me and honestly, I want NOTHING to do with her. Apparently she thinks I was talking about her behind her back, which I NEVER did, but after the way she acted, I want absolutely NOTHING to do with her.
I am completely sure Joey said something to Ashley because on twitter, because Joey makes up so much crap and he can't keep his mouth shut. I asked him about it today and he couldn't even look me in the eyes and he told me 2 completely different stories. I know for SURE he is the one who did this because he was hanging out with her all weekend too, and hes the only person I EVER talked to about Ashley.
Honestly I don't even care about proving that I didn't say anything because Ashley is an idiot, but I don't know what I should do tomorrow. Theres no way I'm going to talk to Ashley becasue I know her well and I know her better than anyone, ones she thinks someones talked about her behind her back shes not gonna listen to them and if I talk to her shes gonna start cussing at me. I don't even want to look at her after what she did, I can't believe she would just explode at me without even asking me if its true or not.
Theres only 2 weeks of this class left anyways so I have nothing to lose. What should I do?
The next time I see Joey I just wanna call him out on it, theres no way you can try and talk rationally to this guy because he lies like crazy, hes my locker partner but I dont even care, what should I do?
Re: Gonna lose my 2 best friends anyhow, how to handle this?
I think you just have to try and move on and get some new friends =/ Like you said only two more weeks. people will soon forget about the fights and what not. Till then you can always stick around here and make some friends till you get more so you're not tally alone.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Re: Gonna lose my 2 best friends anyhow, how to handle this?
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Originally Posted by whyislifesohard
Anyways, last night I got a bunch of texts from Ashley like: "FUCK YOU I HATE YOU I AM NEVER TALKING TO YOU AGAIN, NOW I KNOW WHY EVERYONE HATES YOU" ETC ETC.. I replied with "wtfff are you talking about" but she ignored it.
I am completely sure Joey said something to Ashley because on twitter, because Joey makes up so much crap and he can't keep his mouth shut. I asked him about it today and he couldn't even look me in the eyes and he told me 2 completely different stories. I know for SURE he is the one who did this because he was hanging out with her all weekend too, and hes the only person I EVER talked to about Ashley.
Ugh I hate folks like that. Well, try to talk to a counselor about it, because I really don't know what to tell yoiu. My brother was in a somewhat similiar situation, and he couldn't figure out a way to escape.
Re: Gonna lose my 2 best friends anyhow, how to handle this?
Counselor always is an option, yes. But I would also try to talk about it with them one-on-one. Also, I think finding some new friends is a good option. You can't put all your eggs in one basket- someone is bound to drop them.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
Re: Gonna lose my 2 best friends anyhow, how to handle this?
This story contains two kinds of people who makes me nerdrage:
- Girls who scream at you and ignore you without telling why.
- Friends who talk crap about you behind your back and then lie about it.
Yeah, i'd say you find some new friends.
If your "friends" act like that without telling you why (real friends always tell you why they hate you, even your arch nemesis does), then they aren't your friends.
"I believe in Karma. I can do bad things to people and assume they deserved it."
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