[EllaBella]

I was in advisement class today and we were talking about the "Bullying" Circle which had all the situations when dealing with bullying. The Bullier, The Bullying Suporter, The Bullying suporter who's not involved in the Bullying, The Onlooker who takes place in the Bullying but doesn't do anything, The onlooker who does nothing, the onlooker who disapproves and doesn't do anything, the Onlooker who disagrees and tries to stop Bullying, and the "victim". There was a prep at my table (who by the way is rude and jerkish) says to me, you're the victim aren't you? I say, why would I have a reason to have been bullied? She says something along the lines of, lots of things.

I really dislike her because she's such a B****! Most people dislike her because of her attitude. That bothered me because she was making it apparent that I was below her level. I don't know how to deal with her, and what to say to her to make it apparent to her to stop. I don't really hate her, I just pity her because she doesn't know how to act. So I need advice on how to deal with her.

[Michaelis]

Every class has at least one of those girls. I experienced my fair share of them too.

What i learned from my personal experience is that they best course of action is to just ignore them altogether. When you confront them with their attitude, they simply laugh it up and call you an idiot.

They try to look cool and/or dominant in the eyes of the others, so they don't actually care what people say to them, as long as they can respond to it in a way that pisses you off. Don't try to get sucked in, ignore them, and you'll be a-ok.

[Cadet]

Ignoring them is a good option. When someone does that to me, I throw it back at them. I don't say anything rude, but I just act above their level. But I'm nice about it. It drives them nuts. Eventually they leave me alone because I don't let them feed off of my discomfort or unhappiness. You could either try that, or ignore them. Both work, but the way I do it I find is more fun.

"Love your enemies...it pisses them off"

[Groovemaster]

I have come to the conclusion that if you can't join them, beat them, I know that is not the best advice, but I know if you fight her and win, it is kinda over.